Showing posts with label WHATEVER PEOPLE SAY I AM. Show all posts
Showing posts with label WHATEVER PEOPLE SAY I AM. Show all posts

Friday, July 16, 2010

impossible...


I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did, I did

And you were strong and I was not
My illusion, my mistake
I was careless, I forgot
I did

And now when all is done
There is nothing to say
You have gone and so effortlessly
You have won
You can go ahead tell them

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible

Falling out of love is hard
Falling for betrayal is worst
Broken trust and broken hearts
I know, I know

Thinking all you need is there
Building faith on love and words
Empty promises will wear
I know, I know

And now when all is gone
There is nothing to say
And if you're done with embarrassing me
On your own you can go ahead tell them

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible!
Ooh impossible (yeah yeah)

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did..



Saturday, July 10, 2010

Saturday, July 3, 2010

y women getting fat after married?

I'm so damn curious when thinking of my friend that getting fat and fatter after they get married lol! n the best example would be my mom..haha....dulu kurus keding jer..skrg..bkn men sihat lg ekk..(sorry mak!)..I'm wondering is it because of the marriage life itself or might be happen after they give birth..so, I google up and I found this...these are some of the reason y women gain weight after married..

Your new Celebratory State! Many women spend their single lives looking for that perfect someone. When you finally meet your mate of a lifetime, you now have a PERMANENT date, hopefully for life. You don't have to worry who you'll see the new movie with, who you'll go grocery shopping with or who you can try out every new restaurant (that you refused to go to alone) with. Let's face it going out with the girls to all these events can get old. We were created to enjoy companionship from the opposite sex and when we find it, boy are we in a celebratory state! What comes with just about all of these celebrations: EATING - good food and good drink. Believe me going out (especially much more than you did as a single person) and enjoying the world as a married couple can pack on the pounds Fast!

Added stress! Woman are natural worriers and at the very least we worry more than men. When someone new and so very special is added to your life this is someone that you will stress about daily. Good stress or bad. You'll worry and pray that they make it safely to work and back home, you'll stress on whether they are taking care of their health (so many men just don't), you'll stress over some arguments that seem to come up only after marriage and not during the courtship, you'll stress about his parents or you new in-laws who may or may not be what you expected, you'll stress over juggling your work life and new personal life, you'll stress over events and parties you will have to attend and prepare for new family, friends and co-workers in your life due to your new marriage. Believe me you will have added stress. It is proven that most of us turn to food for comfort when we're stressed. These stresses will all be new to you; no better reason to turn to something familiar for comfort: FOOD. This will pack on the pounds!

Childbirth! Many women, once married or remarried have children with their new husband, even if they already have children from previous relationships. Weight gain during child birth can be major and some of the toughest weight to lose. Don't forget that in addition to being pregnant you have the previous two factors: Celebration of a new Marriage & Stress - that can add additional pounds to your natural weight gain during pregnancy. This weight can be depressing to a woman and that too can add pounds. So when you see a newly married women who has gained weight, be kind and empathetic. If you couldn't think of why on earth this could happen to someone so previously slim, now you have something to dwell on. Help with encouragement to workout with them, babysit or suggest alternative food choices when the new wife goes out to eat. All these can help a woman to lose that weight that many of us inevitably gain after marriage.

Haha..betul ker??so, I have to start to take action from now!!xmo gemuk lepas kawen...nnt kena tggl!! :)

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

desperate???

sy sgt2 desperate!!!ini disebabkan beban kewangan yg melampau!!huhu...maklumlah sy telah menjadi penganggur terhormat selama sebulan..lemau rasanya bile dok kt umah jer..1hb ni sy da start keje balek...xtau la ok ke x keje kt tmpt br nnt..maklumla..sy nih pemalu orgnya...xsosial n xgemar nak berbual mesra ngan stranger...bole??jadi utk mrmbayar hutang piutang, sy sgt terdesak utk wat part time di hari weekend..tp nape xde org nak offer keje pon??sadis betul rasanya...sy xcukup layak ker??ok..atas suggestion Hajariah tersayang..n kerajinan melampau sy..sy try gak la usha2 kt www.asiaparttime.com......dan hasilnya ialah...

xmemberangsangkanla.....xpela..tggu kikin dulu la...huh!!!

Sunday, June 27, 2010

JODOH?

A really good one... .even for a married person... ..

Renunglah sejenak... .jika selepas ini ada lagi yang bertanya soalan "Bila nak kawen?"... Mungkin jawapan di bawah ini boleh diberi... ... Seterusnya mungkin mereka akan berhenti bertanya soalan tersebut... ..

Renungkanlah sedalam-dalamnya. ... ... ... ... ... ... Tidak, jodoh tiada kaitan dengan keturunan. Hanya belum sampai masanya. Ia bagai menanti jambatan untuk ke seberang. Kalau panjang jambatannya jauhlah perjalanan kita. Ada org jodohnya cepat sebab jambatannya singkat. Usia 25 tahun rasanya belumlah terlalu lewat. Dan usia 35 tahun belum apa2 kalau sepanjang usia itu telah digunakan untuk membina kecemerlangan. Nyatakanlah perasaan dan keinginan anda itu dalam doa2 lewat sembahyang. Allah mendengar.

Wanita baik untuk lelaki yang baik, sebaliknya wanita jahat untuk lelaki yang jahat. Biar lambat jodoh asalkan mendapat Mr Right dan biar seorang diri drpd menjadi mangsa lelaki yang tidak beriman kemudian nanti.

Memang kita mudah tersilap mentafsir kehidupan ini. Kita selalu sangka, aku pasti bahagia kalau mendapat ini. Hakikatnya, apabila kita benar2 mendapat apa yang kita inginkan itu, ia juga dtg bersama masalah.

Kita selalu melihat org memandu kereta mewah dan terdetiklah di hati kita, bahagianya org itu. Hakikatnya apabila kita sendiri telah memiliki kereta mewah kita ditimpa pelbagai kerenah. Tidak mustahil pula org yang memandu kereta mewah(walaupun sebenarnya tak mewah) terpaksa membayar lebih tatkala berhenti untuk membeli durian di tepi jalan. Orang lain membeli dengan harga biasa, dia terpaksa membayar berlipat ganda.

Ketika anda terperangkap dalam kesesakan jalan raya, motosikal mencelah-celah hingga mampu berada jauh di hadapan. Anda pun mengeluh, alangkah baiknya kalau aku hanya menunggang sebuah motosikal seperti itu dan cepat sampai ke tempat yang dituju. Padahal si penunggang motosikal mungkin sedang memikirkan bilakah dia akan memandu kereta di tgh2 bandar raya.

Bukan semua yang anda sangka membahagiakan itu benar2 membahagiakan. Bahagianya mungkin ada tapi deritanya juga datang sama. Semua benda, pasti ada baik buruknya.

Demikian juga perkahwinan. Ia baik sebab ia dibenarkan oleh agama, sunnah Nabi, sebagai saluran yang betul untuk melepaskan shahwat di samping membina sahsiah dan sebagainya, tapi ia juga buruk sebab ramai org yang berkahwin hidupnya semakin tidak terurus.

Ramai orang menempah neraka sebaik sahaja melangkahkan kaki ke alam berumahtangga. Bukankah dengan ijab dan Kabul selain menghalalkan hubungan kelamin, tanggungjawab yang terpaksa dipikul juga turut banyak? Bukankah apabila anda gagal melaksanakannya, anda membina dosa seterusnya jambatan ke neraka?

Berapa ramaikah yang menyesali perkahwinan masing2 padahal dahulunya mereka bermati-matian membina janji, memupuk cinta kasih malah ada yang sanggup berkorban apa sahaja asalkan segala impian menjadi nyata?

Jika tidak sanggup untuk bergelar isteri tidak usah berkahwin dulu. Jika merasakan diri belum cukup ilmu untuk bergelar ibu ataupun ayah, belajarlah dulu. Jika rasa2 belum bersedia untuk bersabar dgn kerenah anak2, carilah dulu kesabaran itu. Jangan berkahwin dahulu sebab kenyataannya ramai yang tidak bersedia untuk melangkah tetapi telah melompat, akhirnya jatuh terjerumus dan tidak jumpa akar berpaut tatkala cuba mendaki naik.

Berkahwin itu indah dan nikmat bagi yang benar2 mengerti tuntutan2nya.

Berkahwin itu menjanjikan pahala tidak putus2 bagi yang menjadikannya gelanggang untuk mengukuhkan iman, mencintai Tuhan dan menjadikan syurga sebagai matlamat. Berkahwin itu sempadan dari ketidaksempurnaan insan kepada kesempurnaan insan - bagi yang mengetahui rahsia2nya.

Berkahwinlah anda demi Tuhan dan Nabi-Nya, bukan berkahwin kerana perasaan dan mengikut kebiasaan. Jodoh usah terlalu dirisaukan, tiba masanya ia akan datang menjemput, namun perlu juga anda membuka lorong2nya agar jemputan itu mudah sampai dan tidak terhalang. "

P/S: Dan saya sgt percaya bahawa jodoh dan maut saya adalah ketentuan Allah S.W.T...Sekiranya ada rezeki saya utk bersama dia, suatu masa nnt saatnya pasti akan tiba jua..Saya tidak mau tergesa-gesa utk mendirikan rumahtangga kerana terikut2 dgn kwn2 yg lain..Saya masih belum bersedia..Saya masih tidak yakin yg sy boleh menjadi isteri dan ibu yg baik kepada dia juga anak2 kami nnt..biarlah mak aku kata aku ni andartu ka...andalusia ka...so what, mak???chewwwahhhh...drama queen x aku??

Saturday, June 26, 2010

LiFe iS ShoRt...

Ku mencari.. Ku mencari...aku nak tdo..tp...haisshhh...artikel ni sgt menarik utk dibaca..oleh kerana aku bukanlah seorg yg selfish, so dgn rela hati nya aku ingin sekali share dgn kwn2 sekalian...kalau korg2 rasa nak hidup lama n muda remaja, boleh amalkan perkara2 spt dibawah..

Health:
1. Drink plenty of water
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants, and eat less food that is manufactured in plants
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy
5. Make time for prayer
6. Play more games
7. Read more books than you did in 2009
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day
9. Sleep for 7 hours
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day ---- and while you walk, smile

Personality:
11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do ; keep your limits
14. Don't take yourself so seriously ; no one else does
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
16. Dream more while you are awake
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. Community: 25. Call your family often
26. Each day give something good to others
27. Forgive everyone for everything
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day 30. What other people think of you is none of your business
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:
32. Do the right things
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
34. GOD heals everything
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
37. The best is yet to come
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

Hmm...tula derr..aku rasa aku x tersenarai kot..almaklumlah..xmenepati byk ciri2 spt diatas..tp kalau dgn izin-Nya..InsyaAllah...heeee...


xpercaya ini adalah saya??sila dial 1-800-pergi mamposs... erkk..SORRY!!

Saturday, November 21, 2009

mY feberet song ever...

Fluorescent Adolescent

You used to get it in your fishnets
Now you only get it in your night dress
Started all the naughty nights with niceness
Now you're in a very common crisis
Everything's in order in a black home
Nothing is as pretty since he passed on
That Bloody Mary's dripping in Tabasco
Remember when he used to be a rascal?

Oh that boy's a slag
The best you ever had
The best you ever had
Is just a memory and those dreams
Not as daft as they seem
Not as daft as they seem
My love when you dream them up...

Flicking through a little book of sex tips
Remember when the boys were all electric?
Now when she tells she's gonna get it
I'm guessing that she found it - just forget it
Figures for not getting sentimental
Said she wasn't going but she went still
Now she gets her fella to be gentle
Was it a knickerbocker or a betting pencil?


Oh that boy's a slag
The best you ever had
The best you ever had
Is just a memory and those dreams
Weren't as daft as they seem
Not as daft as they seem
My love when you dream them up
Oh, where did you go?
Where did you go?
Where did you go? Woah.

Falling about
You took a left off Laspark Lane
You just sounded it out
You're not coming back again.

Falling about
You took a left off Laspark Lane
You just sounded it out
You're not coming back again.

You used to get it in your fishnets
Now you only get it in your night dress
Started all the naughty nights with niceness
Now you're in a very common crisis
Everything's in order in a black home
Nothing is as pretty since he passed on
That Bloody Mary's dripping in Tabasco
Remember when he used to be a rascal?


***Arctic Monkey...band dr UK yg mmg cool gile babi..aku suka sgt2 dgr lg2 band dorg nih..byk lagi lagu2 dorg yg best2..mardy bum, do me a favor, only ones who knows, baby i'm yours, teddy picker, brianstorm, still take u home and many more..stay cool, bebeh!!n i'm yours..huhuhu..