sy sgt2 desperate!!!ini disebabkan beban kewangan yg melampau!!huhu...maklumlah sy telah menjadi penganggur terhormat selama sebulan..lemau rasanya bile dok kt umah jer..1hb ni sy da start keje balek...xtau la ok ke x keje kt tmpt br nnt..maklumla..sy nih pemalu orgnya...xsosial n xgemar nak berbual mesra ngan stranger...bole??jadi utk mrmbayar hutang piutang, sy sgt terdesak utk wat part time di hari weekend..tp nape xde org nak offer keje pon??sadis betul rasanya...sy xcukup layak ker??ok..atas suggestion Hajariah tersayang..n kerajinan melampau sy..sy try gak la usha2 kt www.asiaparttime.com......dan hasilnya ialah...
xmemberangsangkanla.....xpela..tggu kikin dulu la...huh!!!
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
10 Secrets For Good Loving Relationship
1)the power of thoughts.
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider his or her needs and desires.
2)the power of respect.
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect, ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, "What do I respect about them?"
3)the power of giving.
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what you will be able to give them.
4)the power of friendship.
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love him or her for who they are and now what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationhip, you must first bring friendship.
5)the power of touch.
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.
6)the power of letting go.
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances.
7)the power of communication.
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I love you."
8)the power of commitment.
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships.
9)the power of passion.
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences.
10)the power of trust.
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust him or her completely.
P/S:nampaknya saya perlu banyak berubah..
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider his or her needs and desires.
2)the power of respect.
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect, ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, "What do I respect about them?"
3)the power of giving.
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what you will be able to give them.
4)the power of friendship.
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love him or her for who they are and now what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationhip, you must first bring friendship.
5)the power of touch.
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.
6)the power of letting go.
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances.
7)the power of communication.
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I love you."
8)the power of commitment.
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships.
9)the power of passion.
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences.
10)the power of trust.
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust him or her completely.
P/S:nampaknya saya perlu banyak berubah..
aDa ApA DgN TuDuNg???
1st of all, sorry guys klu post ni menyinggung hati n perasaan korg yg membaca k!!just found out this interesting article n as usual want to share it...lagipon ini utk ingatan saya jugak...jujurnya...sy hanyala hambaNya yg penuh dgn kekurangan...ok, let's read.. :)
MENGENANG tahun 80-an lalu, memang tidak ramai wanita bertudung. Bagi yang berani bertudung, terpaksa tabah melalui cabaran besar. Cabaran utama ialah menjadi bahan umpatan
masyarakat. Paling popular waktu itu wanita bertudung dikatakan berkepala botak, menghadapi masalah rambut gugur. Wanita bertudung juga dikaitkan dengan hantu atau pengamal ilmu salah. Mungkin masih ada yang ingat fenomena hantu
KUM-KUM!
Bertudung juga dituduh fanatik, sesat dan ketinggalan zaman. Begitulah kejahilan awal masyarakat tentang kewajiban menutup aurat. Rasanya sekarang tidak lagi. Namun bertudung waktu itu umpama pemelihara tingkah laku wanita secara tidak langsung.
Wanita bertudung waktu itu: (80-an - awal 90-an)
1. Terlalu sedikit jumlahnya.
2. Bertudung kerana sudah tahu hukum.
3. Lebih menjaga tingkah lakunya.
4. Jika dahulu dia bergaul bebas dengan lelaki,apabila sudah bertudung, dia mula menjaga tatasusila lelaki dan perempuan mengikut Islam.
5. Memakai baju yang labuh dan longgar saja.
6. Tidak lagi menghadiri parti-parti harijadi yangpada zaman itu cukup popular dan menjadi arah aliran. Kebanyakan parti waktu itu lengkap mengundang band dan ada pesta tari menari.
7. Lebih cenderung mendalami ilmu Islam.
8. Tutur kata semakin lembut dan lunak, bibir tersenyum sebagai sedekah sesama muslim.
9. Wanita bertudung sangat dihormati lelaki. Hendak dekat pun mereka risau. Maruah wanita bertudung terlalu tinggi.
10. Amat menjaga solatnya.
Wanita bertudung alaf baru:
1. Terlalu ramai jumlahnya malah lebih ramai daripada yang tidak bertudung. Alhamdulillah!
2. Tetapi bertudung kerana ia uniform sekolah.
3. Tetap berfesyen sakan walau bertudung. Fesyen nampak perut dan seluar dalam juga tidak terkecuali. Prinsipnya, kepala mesti tutup, nampak buah dada atau montoknya punggung? Itu no hal!
4. Walau bertudung, tingkah laku seperti rockers dan terkinja-kinja menari ketika menyaksi konsert merdeka atau tahun baru bukanlah halangan. Ada yang siap dijulang-julang lagi oleh teman lelaki sewaktu menyaksi pertunjukan bunga api di KLCC.
5. Bukan mahram berpegangan tangan, berasmara di taman rekreasi juga perkara biasa bagi wanita bertudung sekarang.
6. Lelaki pun tidak menghormati wanita bertudung lagi. Bukan setakat dekat, mereka bertepuk bertampar dengan wanita bertudung. Ramai yang berzina dengan wanita bertudung. Maruah wanita bertudung kini di tapak kaki.
7. Kadang-kadang pakai kadang-kadang tidak. Bertudung mengikut mood dan majlis.
8. Bersolat pun seperti di atas... .
hmm..how's is it?? I do admit yg I pon doing the same things to..so, slowly we change yah!!
MENGENANG tahun 80-an lalu, memang tidak ramai wanita bertudung. Bagi yang berani bertudung, terpaksa tabah melalui cabaran besar. Cabaran utama ialah menjadi bahan umpatan
masyarakat. Paling popular waktu itu wanita bertudung dikatakan berkepala botak, menghadapi masalah rambut gugur. Wanita bertudung juga dikaitkan dengan hantu atau pengamal ilmu salah. Mungkin masih ada yang ingat fenomena hantu
KUM-KUM!
Bertudung juga dituduh fanatik, sesat dan ketinggalan zaman. Begitulah kejahilan awal masyarakat tentang kewajiban menutup aurat. Rasanya sekarang tidak lagi. Namun bertudung waktu itu umpama pemelihara tingkah laku wanita secara tidak langsung.
Wanita bertudung waktu itu: (80-an - awal 90-an)
1. Terlalu sedikit jumlahnya.
2. Bertudung kerana sudah tahu hukum.
3. Lebih menjaga tingkah lakunya.
4. Jika dahulu dia bergaul bebas dengan lelaki,apabila sudah bertudung, dia mula menjaga tatasusila lelaki dan perempuan mengikut Islam.
5. Memakai baju yang labuh dan longgar saja.
6. Tidak lagi menghadiri parti-parti harijadi yangpada zaman itu cukup popular dan menjadi arah aliran. Kebanyakan parti waktu itu lengkap mengundang band dan ada pesta tari menari.
7. Lebih cenderung mendalami ilmu Islam.
8. Tutur kata semakin lembut dan lunak, bibir tersenyum sebagai sedekah sesama muslim.
9. Wanita bertudung sangat dihormati lelaki. Hendak dekat pun mereka risau. Maruah wanita bertudung terlalu tinggi.
10. Amat menjaga solatnya.
Wanita bertudung alaf baru:
1. Terlalu ramai jumlahnya malah lebih ramai daripada yang tidak bertudung. Alhamdulillah!
2. Tetapi bertudung kerana ia uniform sekolah.
3. Tetap berfesyen sakan walau bertudung. Fesyen nampak perut dan seluar dalam juga tidak terkecuali. Prinsipnya, kepala mesti tutup, nampak buah dada atau montoknya punggung? Itu no hal!
4. Walau bertudung, tingkah laku seperti rockers dan terkinja-kinja menari ketika menyaksi konsert merdeka atau tahun baru bukanlah halangan. Ada yang siap dijulang-julang lagi oleh teman lelaki sewaktu menyaksi pertunjukan bunga api di KLCC.
5. Bukan mahram berpegangan tangan, berasmara di taman rekreasi juga perkara biasa bagi wanita bertudung sekarang.
6. Lelaki pun tidak menghormati wanita bertudung lagi. Bukan setakat dekat, mereka bertepuk bertampar dengan wanita bertudung. Ramai yang berzina dengan wanita bertudung. Maruah wanita bertudung kini di tapak kaki.
7. Kadang-kadang pakai kadang-kadang tidak. Bertudung mengikut mood dan majlis.
8. Bersolat pun seperti di atas... .
hmm..how's is it?? I do admit yg I pon doing the same things to..so, slowly we change yah!!
Monday, June 28, 2010
MuViE MaNiaC.
Sy sgt suka menonoton wayang...senang ckp bile ada movie baru yg best jer mesti nak g tgk...today is Harris's off day..rasanya cm nak ajak dia g tgk citer nih la...teruja betul tgk Tom Cruise n Cameron Diaz berlakon!!cool beb!!
Sunday, June 27, 2010
ChoCoLaTe sTrAwBeRrY...sedapnya!!
Suke sgt g jln2 kt the curve n round2 kt street market sbb leh usha2 baju, latest fashion, gelang2 yg cantik, hair band la..n mcm2 lagi kt sana...n ada 1 booth tu dia jual coklat strawberi...Chocolate strawberries are beautiful to look at and wonderful to eat..cehh!!tgk org mkn cm sedap jer..harusla sedap kowt..manis + masam..huhuhu..tp, rege dia mmg bole tahan la..aku xingat aku pnah rasa ke x? biasala..aku kan ada mslh 'short term memory lost syndrom'..haisshh..kdg2 aku rs kesian kt diri aku nih...owhh tidak!!ok..so di ruangan resepi hari ini sy ingin mengajar macammane caranya nk wat coklat strawberi ni..actually, ini utk pengetahuan sy jugekk...:P
Bahan-bahannya:
60 large fresh strawberries, with stems left intact
1 (12-ounce) package semisweet or bittersweet chocolate chips
3/4 cup half and half cream
1 to 2 tablespoons brandy, your favorite liqueur, or 2 teaspoons prepared coffee
Line a baking sheet or cookie pan with waxed paper.
Wash the strawberries and pat dry thoroughly with paper towels; set aside. NOTE: Make sure the strawberries are completely dry. Even a drop of water in the melted chocolate can cause it to "seize" and turn the entire mixture into a grainy mess.
If you use refrigerated strawberries, allow them to come to room temperature before dipping in the melted chocolate. If you use cold fruit, condensation will form and that will prevent the chocolate from sticking.
Using one of the below methods, melt the chocolate chips:
Methods of Melting Chocolate:
Double Boiler:
In the top of a double boiler over hot water, not boiling water (don't let the bottom of the bowl touch the water, melt chocolate; add cream, stirring until smooth. NOTE: Be careful boiling water may cause steam droplets to get into chocolate which can result in "seizing," when the chocolate becomes stiff and grainy. NOTE: If you don't have a double boiler you can improvise one by placing a glass or stainless steel bowl over a pot of simmering water.
Remove from heat and blend in brandy, liqueur, or coffee. Let the chocolate cool slightly, but it should not set.
Microwave Melting Chocolate:
In a microwave-safe bowl, melt chocolate chips using either the defrost setting or 10-percent power in the microwave.
Microwave for 1 minute, then check and stir. If you need more time, do it in 10-20 seconds intervals and check and stir after each addition of microwave time. Remove the container from the microwave and stir the chocolate until completely melted. Baking chips and baking chocolate may appear formed and un-melted after heating but will become fluid after stirring. Blend in cream, brandy, liqueur, or coffee.
How To Dip Strawberries in Chocolate:
Grasp the stem or green leaves of the strawberry and dip into the chocolate and swirl in chocolate to partially cover.
Give the strawberry a little shake as you withdraw it from the chocolate (this will fill in all the cracks and leave a nice even line of of chocolate at the base.)
When the strawberry is completely withdrawn from the chocolate, swirl it in a quick, clockwise motion to let the excess chocolate drip off.
Place on the prepared cookie sheet. Repeat with the rest of the strawberries.
Either place strawberries into refrigerator or set aside to allow the chocolate to harden, about 30 minutes. Transfer fruit onto a serving platter to serve.
NOTE: The chocolate dipped strawberries are best if eaten within 24 hours - refrigerate for longer storage, but serve at room temperature for greatest flavor.
Enjoy these pictures yah!!
lagi...
dan lagi....
hmmm...sedapnya!!!
Bahan-bahannya:
60 large fresh strawberries, with stems left intact
1 (12-ounce) package semisweet or bittersweet chocolate chips
3/4 cup half and half cream
1 to 2 tablespoons brandy, your favorite liqueur, or 2 teaspoons prepared coffee
Line a baking sheet or cookie pan with waxed paper.
Wash the strawberries and pat dry thoroughly with paper towels; set aside. NOTE: Make sure the strawberries are completely dry. Even a drop of water in the melted chocolate can cause it to "seize" and turn the entire mixture into a grainy mess.
If you use refrigerated strawberries, allow them to come to room temperature before dipping in the melted chocolate. If you use cold fruit, condensation will form and that will prevent the chocolate from sticking.
Using one of the below methods, melt the chocolate chips:
Methods of Melting Chocolate:
Double Boiler:
In the top of a double boiler over hot water, not boiling water (don't let the bottom of the bowl touch the water, melt chocolate; add cream, stirring until smooth. NOTE: Be careful boiling water may cause steam droplets to get into chocolate which can result in "seizing," when the chocolate becomes stiff and grainy. NOTE: If you don't have a double boiler you can improvise one by placing a glass or stainless steel bowl over a pot of simmering water.
Remove from heat and blend in brandy, liqueur, or coffee. Let the chocolate cool slightly, but it should not set.
Microwave Melting Chocolate:
In a microwave-safe bowl, melt chocolate chips using either the defrost setting or 10-percent power in the microwave.
Microwave for 1 minute, then check and stir. If you need more time, do it in 10-20 seconds intervals and check and stir after each addition of microwave time. Remove the container from the microwave and stir the chocolate until completely melted. Baking chips and baking chocolate may appear formed and un-melted after heating but will become fluid after stirring. Blend in cream, brandy, liqueur, or coffee.
How To Dip Strawberries in Chocolate:
Grasp the stem or green leaves of the strawberry and dip into the chocolate and swirl in chocolate to partially cover.
Give the strawberry a little shake as you withdraw it from the chocolate (this will fill in all the cracks and leave a nice even line of of chocolate at the base.)
When the strawberry is completely withdrawn from the chocolate, swirl it in a quick, clockwise motion to let the excess chocolate drip off.
Place on the prepared cookie sheet. Repeat with the rest of the strawberries.
Either place strawberries into refrigerator or set aside to allow the chocolate to harden, about 30 minutes. Transfer fruit onto a serving platter to serve.
NOTE: The chocolate dipped strawberries are best if eaten within 24 hours - refrigerate for longer storage, but serve at room temperature for greatest flavor.
Enjoy these pictures yah!!
lagi...
dan lagi....
hmmm...sedapnya!!!
Derita Cinta....
Sy merasa sgt sedih & kasihan kepada bekas kwn sekerja sy yg putus cinta..first of all..identiti jejaka kacak tersebut perlu dirahsiakan..katanya even dah 2 bln tp sakit n sedihnya masih x hilang..biasala tuh..maybe dia terlalu syg sgt kat ex gf dia..of cos la syg,kan??hmm..aku pon cmtuh gak dulu ms br lps break with my very 1st love..1st love kot..sape la yg xsyg??sebln tuh harusla menonggeng n tertonggeng2 frustnya..xnak g class...try nk amek drugs..ubat batuk..cam org bodoh jer..seb bek ada bestfren....thanx la korg..tp things happen kan for a reason..terima kaseh la pd arwah gjoe (kenapa arwah??sbb aku rasa dia dah mati dr hidup aku) sbb aku belajar..belajar utk bgn semula..perpisahan yg ajar aku utk grow up..at least aku tau dia mmg xguna, selfish! cipan! LOSER!...hahahaha..n klu aku xbreak ngan dia, mesti skrg nih aku xbersama ngan my Harris yg baek hatinya tuh..huhu..(*nak gak puji2 tuh)..To Mr 'R' yg dimaksudkan..wake up bro..ramai lg awek2 kt dunia nih..she's just a piece of shit,k! syg n mencintai xsemestinya memiliki..pnjm ayat Amin jap..semua yg kite ada nih hanyalah pinjaman dr Allah jer..bila2 masa Dia leh amik balik..klu ada jodoh korg, insyaAllah 1 hari nnt jadik jugak..huhuhu..lu ada rupa, kerja elok, gaji ok, da ada rumah sendiri, kereta semua..chill k!!*motip?? nk marketkan mmbr..bole??
Okla...kt sini ada artikel yg juga menarik utk aku kongsikan bersama...sharing is caring, okayyy!!
BERSEDIH, muram, murung, kecewa, merana, geram malah dendam, segala detik memilukan itu mungkin dialami mereka yang menempuh alam percintaan.
Kasih diharap karam di tengah jalan. Bagi yang bercinta dan ditinggalkan si dia, putus tunang atau mereka yang pernah mengalami keruntuhan rumah tangga, segala perasaan itu bersatu, malah tidak mustahil boleh menjadikan seseorang itu terus memendam rasa.
Seseorang yang putus cinta biasanya menghadapi tekanan emosi yang mendalam. Ada yang termenung dan terkenang si dia yang sudah pergi. Ada pula yang menangis kesedihan di tengah malam sunyi.
Hati pasti tidak tenteram, ingatan silam pasti kembali, kesedihan atau kemarahan datang membayangi. Sesetengah orang mengambil masa bertahun-tahun untuk melupakan kisah cinta bersama si dia, ada pula mungkin sekadar sebulan dua.
Berikut petua menghadapi kemelut perasaan berkenaan untuk meneruskan kehidupan dengan lebih bermakna:
# Ambil sedikit masa untuk diri sendiri
Apabila baru berpisah dengan pasangan, cari tempat menenangkan fikiran dan tarik nafas panjang-panjang. Kemudian, biasakan diri dengan suasana baru itu.
Sebolehnya bagi mereka yang baru bercerai atau berpisah, jangan terburu-buru mencari pasangan baru.
# Mencari hikmah dan pengajaran daripada perpisahan
Setiap perkara yang datang ada hikmahnya. Dalam mencari pengajaran, perlu muhasabah diri atau mengkaji kelemahan diri. Memang tidak dinafikan si dia mempunyai kelemahan namun masing-masing kena reda dengan ketetapan Ilahi.
# Berkongsi dan meluahkan rasa hati dengan rakan atau saudara terdekat
Sebolehnya jangan pendam perasaan seorang diri terutama bagi wanita. Ia boleh diibaratkan luka yang menjadi nanah apabila dipendam lama-lama. Carilah rakan atau saudara dekat bagi melepaskan rasa hati.
Melepaskan rasa hati ini tidak bermaksud bercerita segalanya pada mereka. Cukup dengan melakukan aktiviti baru dan menikmatinya. Itu sudah cukup untuk melepaskan rasa dalam hati dan minda.
# Bersedih berpada-pada
Jangan salahkan diri ataupun sesiapa walaupun ia bukan berpunca daripada diri kita. Semua orang melakukan kesilapan.
Ada sesetengah yang berasa diri dibuang dan tidak diperlukan lagi. Cukup! Berhenti! Mungkin bagi si dia tidak diperlukan, tetapi masih ramai orang lain yang memerlukan kita. Kita mampu mencari cinta yang lain. Teruskan hidup.
# Jangan serik untuk bercinta
Jangan takut atau fobia untuk bercinta lagi. Teruskan mencari cinta baru. Dapatkan pelbagai pandangan daripada rakan, saudara mara dan sesiapa yang mampu memberi pendapat.
Jangan malu dan paling penting, jangan lakukan kesilapan lalu.
# Berdoa dan bertawakal kepada Tuhan
Ingat sesuatu yang baik ataupun buruk di tangan Yang Maha Kuasa. Banyakkan berdoa agar mendapat jodoh yang lebih baik.
FInally, leh layan lagu nih..hehehe..
Sy sgt suka dgr lagu i will survive nih dikala putus cinta dulu..tp version Cake la..tp yg nih ok gak..meriah gitu uols..
Okla...kt sini ada artikel yg juga menarik utk aku kongsikan bersama...sharing is caring, okayyy!!
BERSEDIH, muram, murung, kecewa, merana, geram malah dendam, segala detik memilukan itu mungkin dialami mereka yang menempuh alam percintaan.
Kasih diharap karam di tengah jalan. Bagi yang bercinta dan ditinggalkan si dia, putus tunang atau mereka yang pernah mengalami keruntuhan rumah tangga, segala perasaan itu bersatu, malah tidak mustahil boleh menjadikan seseorang itu terus memendam rasa.
Seseorang yang putus cinta biasanya menghadapi tekanan emosi yang mendalam. Ada yang termenung dan terkenang si dia yang sudah pergi. Ada pula yang menangis kesedihan di tengah malam sunyi.
Hati pasti tidak tenteram, ingatan silam pasti kembali, kesedihan atau kemarahan datang membayangi. Sesetengah orang mengambil masa bertahun-tahun untuk melupakan kisah cinta bersama si dia, ada pula mungkin sekadar sebulan dua.
Berikut petua menghadapi kemelut perasaan berkenaan untuk meneruskan kehidupan dengan lebih bermakna:
# Ambil sedikit masa untuk diri sendiri
Apabila baru berpisah dengan pasangan, cari tempat menenangkan fikiran dan tarik nafas panjang-panjang. Kemudian, biasakan diri dengan suasana baru itu.
Sebolehnya bagi mereka yang baru bercerai atau berpisah, jangan terburu-buru mencari pasangan baru.
# Mencari hikmah dan pengajaran daripada perpisahan
Setiap perkara yang datang ada hikmahnya. Dalam mencari pengajaran, perlu muhasabah diri atau mengkaji kelemahan diri. Memang tidak dinafikan si dia mempunyai kelemahan namun masing-masing kena reda dengan ketetapan Ilahi.
# Berkongsi dan meluahkan rasa hati dengan rakan atau saudara terdekat
Sebolehnya jangan pendam perasaan seorang diri terutama bagi wanita. Ia boleh diibaratkan luka yang menjadi nanah apabila dipendam lama-lama. Carilah rakan atau saudara dekat bagi melepaskan rasa hati.
Melepaskan rasa hati ini tidak bermaksud bercerita segalanya pada mereka. Cukup dengan melakukan aktiviti baru dan menikmatinya. Itu sudah cukup untuk melepaskan rasa dalam hati dan minda.
# Bersedih berpada-pada
Jangan salahkan diri ataupun sesiapa walaupun ia bukan berpunca daripada diri kita. Semua orang melakukan kesilapan.
Ada sesetengah yang berasa diri dibuang dan tidak diperlukan lagi. Cukup! Berhenti! Mungkin bagi si dia tidak diperlukan, tetapi masih ramai orang lain yang memerlukan kita. Kita mampu mencari cinta yang lain. Teruskan hidup.
# Jangan serik untuk bercinta
Jangan takut atau fobia untuk bercinta lagi. Teruskan mencari cinta baru. Dapatkan pelbagai pandangan daripada rakan, saudara mara dan sesiapa yang mampu memberi pendapat.
Jangan malu dan paling penting, jangan lakukan kesilapan lalu.
# Berdoa dan bertawakal kepada Tuhan
Ingat sesuatu yang baik ataupun buruk di tangan Yang Maha Kuasa. Banyakkan berdoa agar mendapat jodoh yang lebih baik.
FInally, leh layan lagu nih..hehehe..
Sy sgt suka dgr lagu i will survive nih dikala putus cinta dulu..tp version Cake la..tp yg nih ok gak..meriah gitu uols..
JODOH?
A really good one... .even for a married person... ..
Renunglah sejenak... .jika selepas ini ada lagi yang bertanya soalan "Bila nak kawen?"... Mungkin jawapan di bawah ini boleh diberi... ... Seterusnya mungkin mereka akan berhenti bertanya soalan tersebut... ..
Renungkanlah sedalam-dalamnya. ... ... ... ... ... ... Tidak, jodoh tiada kaitan dengan keturunan. Hanya belum sampai masanya. Ia bagai menanti jambatan untuk ke seberang. Kalau panjang jambatannya jauhlah perjalanan kita. Ada org jodohnya cepat sebab jambatannya singkat. Usia 25 tahun rasanya belumlah terlalu lewat. Dan usia 35 tahun belum apa2 kalau sepanjang usia itu telah digunakan untuk membina kecemerlangan. Nyatakanlah perasaan dan keinginan anda itu dalam doa2 lewat sembahyang. Allah mendengar.
Wanita baik untuk lelaki yang baik, sebaliknya wanita jahat untuk lelaki yang jahat. Biar lambat jodoh asalkan mendapat Mr Right dan biar seorang diri drpd menjadi mangsa lelaki yang tidak beriman kemudian nanti.
Memang kita mudah tersilap mentafsir kehidupan ini. Kita selalu sangka, aku pasti bahagia kalau mendapat ini. Hakikatnya, apabila kita benar2 mendapat apa yang kita inginkan itu, ia juga dtg bersama masalah.
Kita selalu melihat org memandu kereta mewah dan terdetiklah di hati kita, bahagianya org itu. Hakikatnya apabila kita sendiri telah memiliki kereta mewah kita ditimpa pelbagai kerenah. Tidak mustahil pula org yang memandu kereta mewah(walaupun sebenarnya tak mewah) terpaksa membayar lebih tatkala berhenti untuk membeli durian di tepi jalan. Orang lain membeli dengan harga biasa, dia terpaksa membayar berlipat ganda.
Ketika anda terperangkap dalam kesesakan jalan raya, motosikal mencelah-celah hingga mampu berada jauh di hadapan. Anda pun mengeluh, alangkah baiknya kalau aku hanya menunggang sebuah motosikal seperti itu dan cepat sampai ke tempat yang dituju. Padahal si penunggang motosikal mungkin sedang memikirkan bilakah dia akan memandu kereta di tgh2 bandar raya.
Bukan semua yang anda sangka membahagiakan itu benar2 membahagiakan. Bahagianya mungkin ada tapi deritanya juga datang sama. Semua benda, pasti ada baik buruknya.
Demikian juga perkahwinan. Ia baik sebab ia dibenarkan oleh agama, sunnah Nabi, sebagai saluran yang betul untuk melepaskan shahwat di samping membina sahsiah dan sebagainya, tapi ia juga buruk sebab ramai org yang berkahwin hidupnya semakin tidak terurus.
Ramai orang menempah neraka sebaik sahaja melangkahkan kaki ke alam berumahtangga. Bukankah dengan ijab dan Kabul selain menghalalkan hubungan kelamin, tanggungjawab yang terpaksa dipikul juga turut banyak? Bukankah apabila anda gagal melaksanakannya, anda membina dosa seterusnya jambatan ke neraka?
Berapa ramaikah yang menyesali perkahwinan masing2 padahal dahulunya mereka bermati-matian membina janji, memupuk cinta kasih malah ada yang sanggup berkorban apa sahaja asalkan segala impian menjadi nyata?
Jika tidak sanggup untuk bergelar isteri tidak usah berkahwin dulu. Jika merasakan diri belum cukup ilmu untuk bergelar ibu ataupun ayah, belajarlah dulu. Jika rasa2 belum bersedia untuk bersabar dgn kerenah anak2, carilah dulu kesabaran itu. Jangan berkahwin dahulu sebab kenyataannya ramai yang tidak bersedia untuk melangkah tetapi telah melompat, akhirnya jatuh terjerumus dan tidak jumpa akar berpaut tatkala cuba mendaki naik.
Berkahwin itu indah dan nikmat bagi yang benar2 mengerti tuntutan2nya.
Berkahwin itu menjanjikan pahala tidak putus2 bagi yang menjadikannya gelanggang untuk mengukuhkan iman, mencintai Tuhan dan menjadikan syurga sebagai matlamat. Berkahwin itu sempadan dari ketidaksempurnaan insan kepada kesempurnaan insan - bagi yang mengetahui rahsia2nya.
Berkahwinlah anda demi Tuhan dan Nabi-Nya, bukan berkahwin kerana perasaan dan mengikut kebiasaan. Jodoh usah terlalu dirisaukan, tiba masanya ia akan datang menjemput, namun perlu juga anda membuka lorong2nya agar jemputan itu mudah sampai dan tidak terhalang. "
P/S: Dan saya sgt percaya bahawa jodoh dan maut saya adalah ketentuan Allah S.W.T...Sekiranya ada rezeki saya utk bersama dia, suatu masa nnt saatnya pasti akan tiba jua..Saya tidak mau tergesa-gesa utk mendirikan rumahtangga kerana terikut2 dgn kwn2 yg lain..Saya masih belum bersedia..Saya masih tidak yakin yg sy boleh menjadi isteri dan ibu yg baik kepada dia juga anak2 kami nnt..biarlah mak aku kata aku ni andartu ka...andalusia ka...so what, mak???chewwwahhhh...drama queen x aku??
Renunglah sejenak... .jika selepas ini ada lagi yang bertanya soalan "Bila nak kawen?"... Mungkin jawapan di bawah ini boleh diberi... ... Seterusnya mungkin mereka akan berhenti bertanya soalan tersebut... ..
Renungkanlah sedalam-dalamnya. ... ... ... ... ... ... Tidak, jodoh tiada kaitan dengan keturunan. Hanya belum sampai masanya. Ia bagai menanti jambatan untuk ke seberang. Kalau panjang jambatannya jauhlah perjalanan kita. Ada org jodohnya cepat sebab jambatannya singkat. Usia 25 tahun rasanya belumlah terlalu lewat. Dan usia 35 tahun belum apa2 kalau sepanjang usia itu telah digunakan untuk membina kecemerlangan. Nyatakanlah perasaan dan keinginan anda itu dalam doa2 lewat sembahyang. Allah mendengar.
Wanita baik untuk lelaki yang baik, sebaliknya wanita jahat untuk lelaki yang jahat. Biar lambat jodoh asalkan mendapat Mr Right dan biar seorang diri drpd menjadi mangsa lelaki yang tidak beriman kemudian nanti.
Memang kita mudah tersilap mentafsir kehidupan ini. Kita selalu sangka, aku pasti bahagia kalau mendapat ini. Hakikatnya, apabila kita benar2 mendapat apa yang kita inginkan itu, ia juga dtg bersama masalah.
Kita selalu melihat org memandu kereta mewah dan terdetiklah di hati kita, bahagianya org itu. Hakikatnya apabila kita sendiri telah memiliki kereta mewah kita ditimpa pelbagai kerenah. Tidak mustahil pula org yang memandu kereta mewah(walaupun sebenarnya tak mewah) terpaksa membayar lebih tatkala berhenti untuk membeli durian di tepi jalan. Orang lain membeli dengan harga biasa, dia terpaksa membayar berlipat ganda.
Ketika anda terperangkap dalam kesesakan jalan raya, motosikal mencelah-celah hingga mampu berada jauh di hadapan. Anda pun mengeluh, alangkah baiknya kalau aku hanya menunggang sebuah motosikal seperti itu dan cepat sampai ke tempat yang dituju. Padahal si penunggang motosikal mungkin sedang memikirkan bilakah dia akan memandu kereta di tgh2 bandar raya.
Bukan semua yang anda sangka membahagiakan itu benar2 membahagiakan. Bahagianya mungkin ada tapi deritanya juga datang sama. Semua benda, pasti ada baik buruknya.
Demikian juga perkahwinan. Ia baik sebab ia dibenarkan oleh agama, sunnah Nabi, sebagai saluran yang betul untuk melepaskan shahwat di samping membina sahsiah dan sebagainya, tapi ia juga buruk sebab ramai org yang berkahwin hidupnya semakin tidak terurus.
Ramai orang menempah neraka sebaik sahaja melangkahkan kaki ke alam berumahtangga. Bukankah dengan ijab dan Kabul selain menghalalkan hubungan kelamin, tanggungjawab yang terpaksa dipikul juga turut banyak? Bukankah apabila anda gagal melaksanakannya, anda membina dosa seterusnya jambatan ke neraka?
Berapa ramaikah yang menyesali perkahwinan masing2 padahal dahulunya mereka bermati-matian membina janji, memupuk cinta kasih malah ada yang sanggup berkorban apa sahaja asalkan segala impian menjadi nyata?
Jika tidak sanggup untuk bergelar isteri tidak usah berkahwin dulu. Jika merasakan diri belum cukup ilmu untuk bergelar ibu ataupun ayah, belajarlah dulu. Jika rasa2 belum bersedia untuk bersabar dgn kerenah anak2, carilah dulu kesabaran itu. Jangan berkahwin dahulu sebab kenyataannya ramai yang tidak bersedia untuk melangkah tetapi telah melompat, akhirnya jatuh terjerumus dan tidak jumpa akar berpaut tatkala cuba mendaki naik.
Berkahwin itu indah dan nikmat bagi yang benar2 mengerti tuntutan2nya.
Berkahwin itu menjanjikan pahala tidak putus2 bagi yang menjadikannya gelanggang untuk mengukuhkan iman, mencintai Tuhan dan menjadikan syurga sebagai matlamat. Berkahwin itu sempadan dari ketidaksempurnaan insan kepada kesempurnaan insan - bagi yang mengetahui rahsia2nya.
Berkahwinlah anda demi Tuhan dan Nabi-Nya, bukan berkahwin kerana perasaan dan mengikut kebiasaan. Jodoh usah terlalu dirisaukan, tiba masanya ia akan datang menjemput, namun perlu juga anda membuka lorong2nya agar jemputan itu mudah sampai dan tidak terhalang. "
P/S: Dan saya sgt percaya bahawa jodoh dan maut saya adalah ketentuan Allah S.W.T...Sekiranya ada rezeki saya utk bersama dia, suatu masa nnt saatnya pasti akan tiba jua..Saya tidak mau tergesa-gesa utk mendirikan rumahtangga kerana terikut2 dgn kwn2 yg lain..Saya masih belum bersedia..Saya masih tidak yakin yg sy boleh menjadi isteri dan ibu yg baik kepada dia juga anak2 kami nnt..biarlah mak aku kata aku ni andartu ka...andalusia ka...so what, mak???chewwwahhhh...drama queen x aku??
Saturday, June 26, 2010
L.O.V.E
Yang ni Cool..Layankan jela aku nih..Sesungguhnya aku hanyalah insan lemah yg ada sedikit penyakit imsomnia konon2nya..
Somebody once told me that, "Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong . . . it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from there . . . you'll always end up disappointed when you set standards and define a 'right person' for you . . . and don't rush things . . . 'coz somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody for you".
You can never be perfect . . . the person you love can never be perfect ... but both of you can be perfect through love and prayers, and your love can be perfect through the both of you. But, no relationship is complete without God. . . that's why we have marriage . . . it's a bond not only between you and your loved one . . . but also with God. Our relationships fail not because (s)he's not the right person . . . it's because we expected too much and we decided on our own . . . let God do the work . . . you may call it waiting time . . . but while you are waiting... pray. Let God guide you lways . . . He knows better. No, He knows best.
Love is not what you think it is . . . Sometimes we mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be our last. Because we are overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true love. Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind, unconditional, or simply denying oneself for the sake of someone very important in our life. Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined.
When we think we're in love, the first thing we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our love for someone very special can never be taken away from us. We say this phrase, "You are the most wonderful gift from GOD I have ever received." After a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel we then say, "You are the biggest mistake I've ever made in my entire life!"
Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-V-E? Are you really deeply into it?
Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of the time, these love promises like, "forever, till death do us apart, etc." would end up "never" and "We should part ways, I'm no longer happy with you! My love for you is DEAD!!!" Many times we thought after having committed to someone and your trust to one another freezes down to zero degree, "S/He ain't the right one. I should probably wait for the right one to come."
But the big question anyone could not answer is, "Is she/he the right one?" and "When is the right time?" That made us stick to whom we are with.
Will you always be waiting for the right person to come and the right time to commit? A big YES is the answer. Don't be in a hurry to get into relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what you really want in a relationship.
You're right, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made. If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don't go deeper into it. You'll just suffer the consequences and live like hell the rest of your life. It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention. Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself.
More frequently than not, we all act in a hypocritical manner for some reason.
We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, it's just pity.
We call it love when we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood, it's just that we're too much dependent on them. We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave no one would accept us and our past. We are mistaken, it's just insecurity.
But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn't something you can buy nor beg. It is real and existing. You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget that it also can make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.
Everything Happens For A Reason...
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there ... to serve some sort of purpose; to teach a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
Sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection, you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would not have realized your strength, potential, will power or heart. Nothing happens by chance or means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, flat road to nowhere ... safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
People whom you meet and who affect your life, and the successes and downfalls you experienced, help to create who you are and who you become. The bad experiences are the most valuable because it is often from them that we learn the most. They are probably the most poignant and important ones. Hurt, betrayal, loss, sadness ... these are the great builders of character. Only those who have hurt and lost or have been sad and disappointed know how to truly comfort and forgive another in the same circumstances. Consider yourself blessed!
If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart to.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love, and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it, everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. You may not have the chance to share, talk, listen, dream, and love, teach, or enjoy that moment again.
Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.
Most importantly, if you love someone tell them, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store. And learn a lesson in life each day you live.
Sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection, you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would not have realized your strength, potential, will power or heart. Nothing happens by chance or means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, flat road to nowhere ... safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
People whom you meet and who affect your life, and the successes and downfalls you experienced, help to create who you are and who you become. The bad experiences are the most valuable because it is often from them that we learn the most. They are probably the most poignant and important ones. Hurt, betrayal, loss, sadness ... these are the great builders of character. Only those who have hurt and lost or have been sad and disappointed know how to truly comfort and forgive another in the same circumstances. Consider yourself blessed!
If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart to.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love, and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it, everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. You may not have the chance to share, talk, listen, dream, and love, teach, or enjoy that moment again.
Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.
Most importantly, if you love someone tell them, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store. And learn a lesson in life each day you live.
LiFe iS ShoRt...
Ku mencari.. Ku mencari...aku nak tdo..tp...haisshhh...artikel ni sgt menarik utk dibaca..oleh kerana aku bukanlah seorg yg selfish, so dgn rela hati nya aku ingin sekali share dgn kwn2 sekalian...kalau korg2 rasa nak hidup lama n muda remaja, boleh amalkan perkara2 spt dibawah..
Health:
1. Drink plenty of water
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants, and eat less food that is manufactured in plants
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy
5. Make time for prayer
6. Play more games
7. Read more books than you did in 2009
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day
9. Sleep for 7 hours
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day ---- and while you walk, smile
Personality:
11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do ; keep your limits
14. Don't take yourself so seriously ; no one else does
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
16. Dream more while you are awake
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. Community: 25. Call your family often
26. Each day give something good to others
27. Forgive everyone for everything
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day 30. What other people think of you is none of your business
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
32. Do the right things
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
34. GOD heals everything
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
37. The best is yet to come
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Hmm...tula derr..aku rasa aku x tersenarai kot..almaklumlah..xmenepati byk ciri2 spt diatas..tp kalau dgn izin-Nya..InsyaAllah...heeee...
xpercaya ini adalah saya??sila dial 1-800-pergi mamposs... erkk..SORRY!!
Health:
1. Drink plenty of water
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants, and eat less food that is manufactured in plants
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy
5. Make time for prayer
6. Play more games
7. Read more books than you did in 2009
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day
9. Sleep for 7 hours
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day ---- and while you walk, smile
Personality:
11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do ; keep your limits
14. Don't take yourself so seriously ; no one else does
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
16. Dream more while you are awake
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. Community: 25. Call your family often
26. Each day give something good to others
27. Forgive everyone for everything
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day 30. What other people think of you is none of your business
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
32. Do the right things
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
34. GOD heals everything
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
37. The best is yet to come
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Hmm...tula derr..aku rasa aku x tersenarai kot..almaklumlah..xmenepati byk ciri2 spt diatas..tp kalau dgn izin-Nya..InsyaAllah...heeee...
xpercaya ini adalah saya??sila dial 1-800-pergi mamposs... erkk..SORRY!!
imsomnia punya keje...
imsomnia ker???imsomniala sgt...hahaha..da puas tdo siang mmg la xleh tdo waktu mlm..hahaha..aku la kelawar itu..kelawar yg sgt cantik lg menawan..cantek ker?? it's already 5.20am now and I still cannot sleep...so, belek punya belek...usha punya usha...aku terjumpala gmbr2 ms aku convo 4 tahun lepas..comel nya aku!! (msk peti ais, tutup sendiri)..x puas hati??g matila..hmm..ni gmbr ms degree..ms diploma tah g mana tah gmbr2 tuh..muslimah nya aku..hihi..nnt leh tunjuk kt anak2...baik n sopan kan mama dulu... *blush *blush... ok..ok..saje nk share ngn korg2 n ngan diri aku sendiri..
mula2 mestila gmbr heroin maa...cantikkan??hahaha..
me n my dad...biasala..anak ayah kan??
me n my familia..terselit sekali farhana n harris..wowweee!kurusnya harris..ni time mula2 kenal nih..
hmmm..tula gmbr kenangan ms i grad degree dulu..bangga mommy n daddy i tau!!hahaha...tp skrg da xbangga kot..ada degree je lebih tp keje tah pape2 jer..tp kan...rezeki kite kan Allah jugak yg bagi..kan kat mane2 pon ada rezeki..yg penting halal...aku bknnya merompak bank pon..n aku x terlibat dalam pemerdagangan manusia..haha..dan2 jer ekk...tp En Mokhtar (lecturer aka penyelia thesis) aku dulu ckp jual org mmg leh kaya pon..Ooppss..jgn salah anggap yer..maksud dia ialah wat bisnes maid la..tp nnt nk kena p indon, filipina n sbgnya lak sbb nak cr calon2 maid..huh!!whateverla!!
mula2 mestila gmbr heroin maa...cantikkan??hahaha..
me n my dad...biasala..anak ayah kan??
me n my familia..terselit sekali farhana n harris..wowweee!kurusnya harris..ni time mula2 kenal nih..
hmmm..tula gmbr kenangan ms i grad degree dulu..bangga mommy n daddy i tau!!hahaha...tp skrg da xbangga kot..ada degree je lebih tp keje tah pape2 jer..tp kan...rezeki kite kan Allah jugak yg bagi..kan kat mane2 pon ada rezeki..yg penting halal...aku bknnya merompak bank pon..n aku x terlibat dalam pemerdagangan manusia..haha..dan2 jer ekk...tp En Mokhtar (lecturer aka penyelia thesis) aku dulu ckp jual org mmg leh kaya pon..Ooppss..jgn salah anggap yer..maksud dia ialah wat bisnes maid la..tp nnt nk kena p indon, filipina n sbgnya lak sbb nak cr calon2 maid..huh!!whateverla!!
TgK WorLd CuP Ke aMbiK KeSeMpaTaN MeNaMbAh KaLoRi???
Sejak2 world cup nih aku slalu tdo lambat..sbb nak jugak layan bola..cam dak jantan...huhu...so bile da tdo lmbt aka melepak kt mamak, of cos la mkn lewat malam kan..tp yg peliknya..xgemok2 lak aku..takut gak klu kena obesiti nnt...for example..semlm aku mkn nasi ngan lauk2 bagai n sbg 'desert' aku mkn burger ayam..boleh??haiihsss...arini lak..sama gak la..da mkn nasi n lauk2 bagai sblm games brasil vs portugal..then 2jam kemudiannya ktorg p mkn nasi lemak kt kg baru..hehehe..kedai nasi lemak ni berkurun la aku cr sbb last time g adala 5 taun lepas..huhu..akhirnya jumpa gak..nasi lemak nak 2 bungkus sorg..huhu..x bole blah..tp sedap kot compare tu nasi lemak kat area jalan 223, pj nun...makanya!aku bkn la fanatik bola sgt..kepoyoan je stay lewat2 mlm sbb nk mkn..hahaha...ok..check this out-->
Burger ayam kat Nasi Lemak Femes (femes ker?), Bangsar
Nasi lemak Kg Baru yg aku cari2 selama nih..xnmpk menyelerakan ke?hahaha
kedai tersebut..huhu
n lastly..ada penghibur tau!sedap suara mamat2 nih..
Sedap dorg nyanyi lagu yuna -Dan Sebenarnya
So, pada sesape yg xpnah try mkn nasi lemak kt sini..silalah try yer..kat mane??cr jer sek rendah kg baru..jumpa la nnt..area2 situ jer..selamat mencari..huhu!
Lupa lak..ada lagi arr...last but not least....
Go BraSiL Go!!motif???hahahaha....
Lalalalala....
Burger ayam kat Nasi Lemak Femes (femes ker?), Bangsar
Nasi lemak Kg Baru yg aku cari2 selama nih..xnmpk menyelerakan ke?hahaha
kedai tersebut..huhu
n lastly..ada penghibur tau!sedap suara mamat2 nih..
Sedap dorg nyanyi lagu yuna -Dan Sebenarnya
So, pada sesape yg xpnah try mkn nasi lemak kt sini..silalah try yer..kat mane??cr jer sek rendah kg baru..jumpa la nnt..area2 situ jer..selamat mencari..huhu!
Lupa lak..ada lagi arr...last but not least....
Go BraSiL Go!!motif???hahahaha....
Lalalalala....
Thursday, June 24, 2010
5 Things: Cellulite
This is soooo good too...celulit??ko ada selulit??aku ada...sedihnya..kurus2 pon ada celulit...let's read what we can do with it...
Celeb trainer Jillian Michaels is no stranger to cellulite. And neither is starlet Kim Kardashian. In fact, it's estimated that between 80 to 95 percent of women have cellulite somewhere on their body. If you've been worrying about a bit of dimpling on your backside, at least you know you're not alone. If knowledge is power, here are five things about cellulite to help you feel empowered about that unwanted dimpling.
1. From a purely medical standpoint, cellulite doesn't exist; it is nothing more than fat. The word cellulite is French and was first used in medical literature around 150 years ago.
2. Cellulite is more prominent in women than in men due to the structural differences of stored fat between the sexes. The connective tissues that create these storage units in men works on diagonals, where as we lucky ladies store our fat in a large vertical honeycomb like structure. This structural form unfortunately enhances the appearance of the dimples.
3. Here's the bad news — there is no way to get rid of cellulite. None of those creams, lotions, or rubs will get rid of the dimples caused by cellulite. Topical creams cannot penetrate the three layers of skin to eliminate the fat.
Learn what you can do about cellulite.
4. The kind of good news: according to the fitness experts at the American Council of Exercise, you can reduce the appearance of cellulite. You need to decrease overall body fat by doing cardio. Dr. Len Kravits, who holds a PhD in exercise science, recommends 20 to 60 minutes of cardio, three to five times a week.
5. Cardio alone will not decrease the dimples, though. Flaccid muscle can increase the appearance of cellulite, so strength training is highly recommended. You should work the muscles in the areas where the dimpling is occurring two to three times a week. This means doing lunges in all directions and squats for the thighs and glutes. Check out these moves for toning your lower body. Work your adductors to tone your inner thighs, and your abductors to tone the outer thigh. Just don't skip your strength training.
'Fess up — do you have cellulite?
Celeb trainer Jillian Michaels is no stranger to cellulite. And neither is starlet Kim Kardashian. In fact, it's estimated that between 80 to 95 percent of women have cellulite somewhere on their body. If you've been worrying about a bit of dimpling on your backside, at least you know you're not alone. If knowledge is power, here are five things about cellulite to help you feel empowered about that unwanted dimpling.
1. From a purely medical standpoint, cellulite doesn't exist; it is nothing more than fat. The word cellulite is French and was first used in medical literature around 150 years ago.
2. Cellulite is more prominent in women than in men due to the structural differences of stored fat between the sexes. The connective tissues that create these storage units in men works on diagonals, where as we lucky ladies store our fat in a large vertical honeycomb like structure. This structural form unfortunately enhances the appearance of the dimples.
3. Here's the bad news — there is no way to get rid of cellulite. None of those creams, lotions, or rubs will get rid of the dimples caused by cellulite. Topical creams cannot penetrate the three layers of skin to eliminate the fat.
Learn what you can do about cellulite.
4. The kind of good news: according to the fitness experts at the American Council of Exercise, you can reduce the appearance of cellulite. You need to decrease overall body fat by doing cardio. Dr. Len Kravits, who holds a PhD in exercise science, recommends 20 to 60 minutes of cardio, three to five times a week.
5. Cardio alone will not decrease the dimples, though. Flaccid muscle can increase the appearance of cellulite, so strength training is highly recommended. You should work the muscles in the areas where the dimpling is occurring two to three times a week. This means doing lunges in all directions and squats for the thighs and glutes. Check out these moves for toning your lower body. Work your adductors to tone your inner thighs, and your abductors to tone the outer thigh. Just don't skip your strength training.
'Fess up — do you have cellulite?
Where Do You Walk?
I've been trying to walk more and drive less, and one of the ways I'm doing this is by walking to the grocery store (BHP) or when I'm going to work (previously when I'm working with OCBC). Not only is taking your foot from the pedal to the pavement a healthy way to burn calories and enjoy the outdoors, but it's good for the environment as well. Whether you walk to work, the gym, or to take your kids to and from school, sometimes just a little bit of walking makes you feel better.
I'm curious, do you walk anywhere throughout the week?
I'm curious, do you walk anywhere throughout the week?
Girls VS Women
I found this and want to share it as it is very interesting to me..
Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
Girls check you for not calling them.
Women are too busy to realize you hadn't.
Girls try to put a man on lock by using sex.
Women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to lock you down.
Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Women say, stop, get up, get dressed and leave.
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Women revel in it, using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys.
Women ignore the bad guys.
Girls make you come.
Women make you come home.
Girls worry about not being good enough for their man.
Women know that they are good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man's time.
Women realize that a little bit of space makes the together time even more special.
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls want to be spoiled and tell their man so.
Women show him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his manhood.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Women know that that was just one man.
Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all signs.
Women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back and move on without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Women will read this and pass it on to other grown women!
Sooo...how is it??
Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
Girls check you for not calling them.
Women are too busy to realize you hadn't.
Girls try to put a man on lock by using sex.
Women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to lock you down.
Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Women say, stop, get up, get dressed and leave.
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Women revel in it, using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys.
Women ignore the bad guys.
Girls make you come.
Women make you come home.
Girls worry about not being good enough for their man.
Women know that they are good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man's time.
Women realize that a little bit of space makes the together time even more special.
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls want to be spoiled and tell their man so.
Women show him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his manhood.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Women know that that was just one man.
Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all signs.
Women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back and move on without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Women will read this and pass it on to other grown women!
Sooo...how is it??
Friday, June 18, 2010
Lagu Rinduu...
Disini aku masih sendiri
Merenungi hari-hari sepi
Aku tanpamu
Masih tanpamu
Bila esok hari datang lagi
Ku coba untuk hadapi semua ini
Meski tanpamu
Meski tanpamu
Bila aku dapat bintang yang berpijar
Mentari yang tenang bersamaku disini
Ku dapat tertawa menangis merenung
Di tempat ini aku bertahan
Suara dengarkanlah aku
Apa kabarnya pujaan hatiku
Aku disini menunggunya
Masih berharap di dalam hatinya
Suara dengarkanlah aku
Apakah aku s’lalu dihatinya
Aku disini menunggunya
Masih berharap di dalam hatinya
Kalau aku masih tetap disini
Ku lewati semua yang terjadi
Aku menunggumu
Aku menunggu
Songs by Hijau Daun (Suara(KuBerharap))
Merenungi hari-hari sepi
Aku tanpamu
Masih tanpamu
Bila esok hari datang lagi
Ku coba untuk hadapi semua ini
Meski tanpamu
Meski tanpamu
Bila aku dapat bintang yang berpijar
Mentari yang tenang bersamaku disini
Ku dapat tertawa menangis merenung
Di tempat ini aku bertahan
Suara dengarkanlah aku
Apa kabarnya pujaan hatiku
Aku disini menunggunya
Masih berharap di dalam hatinya
Suara dengarkanlah aku
Apakah aku s’lalu dihatinya
Aku disini menunggunya
Masih berharap di dalam hatinya
Kalau aku masih tetap disini
Ku lewati semua yang terjadi
Aku menunggumu
Aku menunggu
Songs by Hijau Daun (Suara(KuBerharap))
muka tua aku???huk huk huk
tomorrow is my birthday..rasa cm da tua sgt..tu yg gedik2 nak tgk gmbr tua i nih..papepun tgk gambar ni dulu...
motip letak gambar awek2 cun lagi hot gilerr babi ni? sajee... nak bg suspen dulu.. x surprise lak karang...
ramai dah kot tau pasal ni, aku biasalah kadang2 ketinggalan bab2 teknologi ni. hehehe...nak tgk muka tua korang??sila klik di sini..http://www.in20years.com/
dan.. hasilnyeee....
buruk nye la...cm pondan pon ada... wuwuwu.. aku nak comel2 bila tua karang? owh~~~ tapi ayahku makin tua makin comel tauuu... rasa nak cabut2 jer uban kat kepala tu..xpon simbah ngan dye kaler itam..huhu(gelak2 di sebalik langsir)
hukhukhuk.. neh laa hasilnyaa..
huhuhu..cmneh ke?? awat hidung i mancung sket bila da tua??
motip letak gambar awek2 cun lagi hot gilerr babi ni? sajee... nak bg suspen dulu.. x surprise lak karang...
ramai dah kot tau pasal ni, aku biasalah kadang2 ketinggalan bab2 teknologi ni. hehehe...nak tgk muka tua korang??sila klik di sini..http://www.in20years.com/
dan.. hasilnyeee....
buruk nye la...cm pondan pon ada... wuwuwu.. aku nak comel2 bila tua karang? owh~~~ tapi ayahku makin tua makin comel tauuu... rasa nak cabut2 jer uban kat kepala tu..xpon simbah ngan dye kaler itam..huhu(gelak2 di sebalik langsir)
hukhukhuk.. neh laa hasilnyaa..
huhuhu..cmneh ke?? awat hidung i mancung sket bila da tua??
kahwin??
it's already 2.44am now n i'm still awake..huhu..rs cm nk dgr lg corrine bailey 'trouble sleeping' lak!hmm..kawen..bunyinya cm best jer..tp nak menjadikannya tu yg leceh..i'm 27 years old already n mak kata aku da sama standard ngan andartu..apsal plak??kecoh jer..ntah ape2..
ijan n ada nak kawen da bln 11 nnt..huhuhu..macam2..xmenyabar masing2 nak kawen..relax sudah..ajal n maut kan di tgn tuhan..klu Allah kata jadi, jadila..klu x jadi or maybe terputus ditgh jln, mayb that person is not the right one for us..things happen for a good reason, rite?huhu..aku nak gak kawen..nak ada husband...anak2..however i think that i'm not ready for that yet..n maybe the time is not come yet.. :P ..tp utk menyedapkan hati harris said that kami akan engaged this year..after raya kot..tgk jela mcm mana kan..
hak hak hak..;p sekarang adalah time aku bercakap pasal wedding... layan je la eh ;p jangan kata aku gatal tauu ;p gatal boleh garu, hihihi..
ok..so klu aku nak kawen nnt, aku impikan majlis kawen yg simple jer..sbb aku adalah seorg yg simple..aku nak tema kawen kaler putih..mcm suci jer..engaged kaler putih..nikah kaler putih n sanding pon kaler putih..huhu..berangan lebih!!ni dia gmbr2 wedding yg telah aku googlekan...
ni cam cantek jer..
aku suka yg nih..simple jer kan..simple ker???
last but not least..
ijan n ada nak kawen da bln 11 nnt..huhuhu..macam2..xmenyabar masing2 nak kawen..relax sudah..ajal n maut kan di tgn tuhan..klu Allah kata jadi, jadila..klu x jadi or maybe terputus ditgh jln, mayb that person is not the right one for us..things happen for a good reason, rite?huhu..aku nak gak kawen..nak ada husband...anak2..however i think that i'm not ready for that yet..n maybe the time is not come yet.. :P ..tp utk menyedapkan hati harris said that kami akan engaged this year..after raya kot..tgk jela mcm mana kan..
hak hak hak..;p sekarang adalah time aku bercakap pasal wedding... layan je la eh ;p jangan kata aku gatal tauu ;p gatal boleh garu, hihihi..
ok..so klu aku nak kawen nnt, aku impikan majlis kawen yg simple jer..sbb aku adalah seorg yg simple..aku nak tema kawen kaler putih..mcm suci jer..engaged kaler putih..nikah kaler putih n sanding pon kaler putih..huhu..berangan lebih!!ni dia gmbr2 wedding yg telah aku googlekan...
ni cam cantek jer..
aku suka yg nih..simple jer kan..simple ker???
last but not least..
pesta lampu??
hi!it's been a long time that i didn't update my blog...the reason is that my lappy wat hal + no berokband n last but not least is bcoz i'm quite bz..bz ker? ye kot..tp skrg nih x bz da sbbnya??aku da benti keje...i'm freaking jobless now..with less of money + much hutang..haisshhh...aku pon tatau la ape nk jd ngan aku neh..rasa LOSER sgt..hmmm...so mlm ni aku sdkt free utk update my blog..huhuhu..
pesta lampu..cm kelakar jer bunyinya..last nite me n harris bwk mak, lin n yun g i-City Shah Alam tgk lampu2 yg chantek tu..seronok rasanya bile tgk dorg seronok..lagi2 mak aku..siap nyanyi lagik mak ekk...hilang sket stress my mom yg memikirkan hal ehwal kawen adik aku (ijan)...so dibwh ni aku letak beberapa gmbr utk tatapan bersama..n pd sesapa yg lom g i-city, pergila korg..cantek tmpt tuh..tp pegi waktu mlm hari la..
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