It's already 3.07am but I'm here..updating my blog..I'm quite bz that I don't have much time to update this blog...arrggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh....sakitnya!!this pain..it really kills me...aku da xtahan sgt2 nih..nangis pon doesn't help...sakit sgt2 n aku da xrasa nikmat mkn tu cmne..nak tidur pon susah..lagikan pula nk bercakap..org kata, sakit tu penghapus dosa..byk sgt agaknya dosa aku smpi kena sakit yg sama berulang2..mkn pain killer pon boleh kurang sekejap je..huuuuuhuuuuuuhuuuuuuuuuuu... (T T)..
TOLONNNNNNNNNNNNGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tq to Maher Zain for his beautiful songs..It do helps me..
Thursday, October 21, 2010
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
LaGu BEST!!
wpon aku xfebret sgt ngan LADY GAGA sbb illuminati dia, tp sejak dgr lg ni...suka lak aku melayannya...huissssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhh..ni hah!
Lady GaGa - Speechless
I can't believe what you said to me
Last night we were alone
You threw your hands up
Baby, you gave up, you gave up
I can't believe how you looked at me
With your James Dean glossy eyes
In your tight jeans with your long hair
And your cigarette stained lies
Could we fix you if you broke?
And is your punch line just a joke?
I'll never talk again, oh boy, you've left me speechless
You've left me speechless, so speechless
And I'll never love again, oh boy, you've left me speechless
You've left me speechless, so speechless
I can't believe how you slurred at me
With your half wired broken jaw
You popped my heart, seams
On my bubble dreams, bubble dreams
I can't believe how you looked at me
With your Johnnie Walker eyes
He's gonna get you and after he's through
There's gonna be no love left to rye
And I know that it's complicated
But I'm a loser in love, so baby
Raise a glass to mend all the broken hearts
Of all my wrecked up friends
I'll never talk again, oh boy, you've left me speechless
You've left me speechless so speechless
And I'll never love again, oh friend, you've left me speechless
You've left me speechless, so speechless
How? How? How?
How? How? How?
And after all the drinks and bars that we've been to
Would you give it all up? Could I give it all up for you?
And after all the boys and the girls that we've been through
Would you give it all up? Could you give it all up if I promise boy to you?
That I'll never talk again and I'll never love again
I'll never write a song, won't even sing along
I'll never love again, so speechless
You left me speechless, so speechless
Will you ever talk again?
Oh boy, why you so speechless?
You've left me speechless, so speechless
Some men may follow me
But you choose any girl but me
Why you so speechless? Oh, oh
Lady GaGa - Speechless
I can't believe what you said to me
Last night we were alone
You threw your hands up
Baby, you gave up, you gave up
I can't believe how you looked at me
With your James Dean glossy eyes
In your tight jeans with your long hair
And your cigarette stained lies
Could we fix you if you broke?
And is your punch line just a joke?
I'll never talk again, oh boy, you've left me speechless
You've left me speechless, so speechless
And I'll never love again, oh boy, you've left me speechless
You've left me speechless, so speechless
I can't believe how you slurred at me
With your half wired broken jaw
You popped my heart, seams
On my bubble dreams, bubble dreams
I can't believe how you looked at me
With your Johnnie Walker eyes
He's gonna get you and after he's through
There's gonna be no love left to rye
And I know that it's complicated
But I'm a loser in love, so baby
Raise a glass to mend all the broken hearts
Of all my wrecked up friends
I'll never talk again, oh boy, you've left me speechless
You've left me speechless so speechless
And I'll never love again, oh friend, you've left me speechless
You've left me speechless, so speechless
How? How? How?
How? How? How?
And after all the drinks and bars that we've been to
Would you give it all up? Could I give it all up for you?
And after all the boys and the girls that we've been through
Would you give it all up? Could you give it all up if I promise boy to you?
That I'll never talk again and I'll never love again
I'll never write a song, won't even sing along
I'll never love again, so speechless
You left me speechless, so speechless
Will you ever talk again?
Oh boy, why you so speechless?
You've left me speechless, so speechless
Some men may follow me
But you choose any girl but me
Why you so speechless? Oh, oh
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Tuesday, September 21, 2010
BuSy + STRESS TeRLamPaU!!!!!!!!!!!
hmm....lama da x hupdate blog...i'm quite bz with my work, raya, n bisnes kecil2an yg br je stat last months...n now bz with my online handbag bisnes lak..busy betul!!anyway, if korang semua rasa nak beli or belikan gf VINTAGE HANDBAG yg stylo2 kan...korang leh check at this blog-->http://suris-collections.blogspot.com/ or add us on FB--> Suri's Collections.
Peace!!
Peace!!
Thursday, August 19, 2010
sgt2 happy!!!
sgt2 hepi!!reason???hahahahahahaha...sy da dpt hadiah bday sy..thanx pa..muaahh...hihi...unbelievable!wp canon je, tp okla...sy tgh belajar cara2 utk mengendalikan mainan tersebut..yela..sy bknnya professional pon...masih byk lg masa yg sy perlukan utk memahirkan diri..apapun, sy sudah punya dslr sendirik!!
Sunday, August 15, 2010
xde keje.
aku da bosan giler nih...nak kemas bilik malas..so belek2 diary terjumpa lak 1 bday kad..the 1st ever handmade bday card yg penah aku dpt...huhuhu...really appreaciate it..card bday ni aku dpt masa aku form 5 dulu..aku dpt dr bdak kecik name en yus ms dia form4..means da 10thn kot aku smpn kad besday ni..the reason is that ada sentimental value kot..bknnya aku syok kt mamak ni tp sbb aku syg sgt kt frenship ktorg yg da lama giler ni..wpon on-off..yela masing2 ada perangai biskut chipsmore..bile aku ada bf, aku senyap...n same goes to him...bile ada gf, dia senyap gak....huhuhuhuhuuhuhuhuh...
ni ayat2 yg dia tulis:
times'll run..days'll change..
someone's has changed..
think that they're great..
but not me...not my mates..
we knew they're sux..
but as a huma..like u..
I can't stop that on my mind..
they've said they're great..
but truly..let u'r heart..u'r souls..
u'r feeling n u'r mind..
said that u can..
for me frenz means anything..
no more frends means no more life..
it will be better than..
LOVE is sucks..
P/S:i think u'r frustrated that time with ur gf, kan??
ni ayat2 yg dia tulis:
times'll run..days'll change..
someone's has changed..
think that they're great..
but not me...not my mates..
we knew they're sux..
but as a huma..like u..
I can't stop that on my mind..
they've said they're great..
but truly..let u'r heart..u'r souls..
u'r feeling n u'r mind..
said that u can..
for me frenz means anything..
no more frends means no more life..
it will be better than..
LOVE is sucks..
P/S:i think u'r frustrated that time with ur gf, kan??
kerinduan kepada family...
hmmm....by right arini da puasa ke-5 tp setakat ni aku berjaya puasa 2 hari jer...errkk...bkn sengaja xnak puasa tp aku betul2 xsihat..aku demam n selsema..masa 1st n 2nd day lg teruk...keadaan mmg xmengizinkan kot..n disaat2 itu aku betul2 rindu kt family kt kg..huhuhuhuh...rindu kt mak...ms demam tu mak rajin gak call suh mkn ubat ru, minum air ni...huhuhu...nak balek kg tp duit tggl sket lak..nk mkn mak masak...cmne hah?next week aku ada off 3 hari..sabtu, ahad, isnin...huhuhu...nak balik....nak balik.... :(
rindu kat mak.... :(
rindu kat mak.... :(
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
sok puasa!
hahaha...da kol 12.46am n aku masih xtdo...arini da 1st ramadhan....huhuhuhu..bln yg penuh keberkatan..azam aku klu bole nak puasa la tahun ni...penuh except yg xbole tu jer..xnak maki2 org...xnak marah2...n nak rajin keje..nak rajin ot...may Allah bless me....amin.. peace!
Friday, August 6, 2010
my faberet kuey teow.
motep???sedap dowh kuey teow abg nih..laloq2 aku pas mkn..xtau apa larr isi ramuannya tp aku mmg suka betoi mkn kuey teow kt sini...hahahahaha...nk cr mane??kdai dia kecik jer tmpg kedai makcik kt blkg vads tmn tun tuh..hehehe...bole cuba ye..tp klu nk g kena ajak aku skali arr.. :P
ulat buku??
woot..woot...2nd entri utk hari ini..hahaha..biasa la..aku kan suka berjalan2..hari selasa baru2 ni iaitu mengkala hari offku, aku n aris g jln2 kt amcorp mall..saje xtau nak lepak mane n then ktorg nmpk ada 1 kedai buku *lupa arr tgkt bape..aris biasala, klu nmpk kedai buku je da cm kena sawan,kan??hihi..msk je dlm kedai tu aku da cm pelik sbb awat semua buku2 dia cm murah kan..kt luar dia aku mmg da nmpk dia tulis overseas book in cheap price..n mmg betul pon..semua cm diskaun up to 70%..ada biograpy pasal 'the rolling stones' actual price rm2++ dia jual rm99 jer..xtau la dorg ni nape..cm rugi jer kt tokey dia but utk buyer mmg untung la..aku rs maybe sbb zaman it kot so sume org xsuka baca buku..tp xkan nk angkut lappy or netbook or maybe nk bc novel in hp kot..whatever..apepun, aku yg kureng membaca ni pon nak jugek beli novel..hahaha...
si gemok poyo..
si kulus with her books..hahaha
my book
si gemok poyo..
si kulus with her books..hahaha
my book
japanese stuff yg rare..
hi!!!last sunday aku g lepak kt the curve..asalnya cr nichii...pas beli bj kt situ ternampak sebijik kedai yg besar ada tulis 'each items RM5'...so aku pon ape lg menggedik la nak tgk ape yg ada dlm tuh...mak aihh...best gile!!mcm2 ADA.. n semuanya rare belaka..hhahaaha..klu nk cr gift pon bole kt sini sbb barang2 dia sumer best!n aku?semestinya nak beli jugek sebijik 2 brg kt situ..huhu!
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
Turn Back Time
Give me time to reason,
give me time to think it through
Passing through the season,
where I cheated you
I will always have a cross to wear,
but the bolt reminds me I was there
So give me strength,
to face this test tonight
If only I could turn back time,
If only I had saved what I still had
If only I could turn back time,
I would stay for the night... for the night
Claim your right to science,
Claim your right to see the truth
Though my pangs of conscience,
Will drill a hole in you
I've seen it coming like a thief in the night,
I've seen it coming from the flesh of your light
So give me strength,
to face this test tonight
If only I could turn back time,
if only I had saved what I still had
if only I could turn back time,
I would stay.
The bolt reminds me I was there
the bolt reminds me I was there
(repeat chorus until fade out)
give me time to think it through
Passing through the season,
where I cheated you
I will always have a cross to wear,
but the bolt reminds me I was there
So give me strength,
to face this test tonight
If only I could turn back time,
If only I had saved what I still had
If only I could turn back time,
I would stay for the night... for the night
Claim your right to science,
Claim your right to see the truth
Though my pangs of conscience,
Will drill a hole in you
I've seen it coming like a thief in the night,
I've seen it coming from the flesh of your light
So give me strength,
to face this test tonight
If only I could turn back time,
if only I had saved what I still had
if only I could turn back time,
I would stay.
The bolt reminds me I was there
the bolt reminds me I was there
(repeat chorus until fade out)
Monday, August 2, 2010
AKU TAKUT
HARI INI AKU HIT FLOOR...AKU RASA TAKUT + RISAU SGT2...YE ARR DA LAMA KOT XJWB CALL...N BERMULA LA KERJA SYIFKU...THIS WHOLE WEEK AKU KERJA KOL 12PM TILL 9PM..OFF ON TUESDAY + FRIDAY...CAMNE LA ESOK AGAKNYA, KAN??RISAU LA....DA ID SUMER XDPT LG..TAH PAPE JER..YA ALLAH, KUATKAN LAH HAMBAMU UNTUK MENGHADAPI CABARAN YG MENDATANG..AMIN..
Sunday, August 1, 2010
sabtu nan indah...
weekend ni maybe akan menjadi last weekend dimana aku off sabtu n ahad..isnin next week aku da hit floor...huhuhu..takut arr nak jwb call balek..n bermula la kembali kerja bersyif ku...jadi di hari sabtu yg indah ini, aku n harris dgn gembiranya berjalan2 membuang masa n duit..hehehe..pas g beli brg kt ikea, ktorg g melantak kt 1 kedai mkn name uncle's lim..tu pon sbb harris da lapar sesgt so kitorg hentam jela mkn kt situ..hmm...ni nak bgtau assam laksa dia mmg mabeles wa ckp lu..chicken porridge dia pon bole tahan gak la..byk lak tuh..dlm byk2 assam laksa yg aku penah mkn, kt kedai ni la yg the best..huh!!xnak tulis panjang lebar, anda sila nikmati gmbr2 yg sy amik nih..
assam laksa yg sedap itu
bubur ayam lol!
klu anda mau cuba, sila cr kedai ini di ikano power centre yah!
n last but not least...rega!
SELAMAT MENCUBA yaww!!
assam laksa yg sedap itu
bubur ayam lol!
klu anda mau cuba, sila cr kedai ini di ikano power centre yah!
n last but not least...rega!
SELAMAT MENCUBA yaww!!
Saturday, July 31, 2010
baby tergemok + terberat didunia...
comel kan??berat dia 20kg..cmne lak ghupenya ms mama dia pregnantkan dia ekk??
Friday, July 30, 2010
5 Effective Tips For Dealing With Upset Customers
hahaha..boleh??memandangkan saya adalah seorg cust service consultant, jadinya cm best jer nak post menda alah ini..hehehehe..enjoy, ok??
1. Don't tell a customer they are wrong.
Telling your customer he is wrong arouses opposition and will make the customer want to battle with you. It's difficult, under even the most benign situations to change people's minds. So why make your job harder by starting out on the wrong foot.
2. Don't argue with a customer.
You can never win an argument with your customers. Certainly, you can prove your point and even have the last word, you may even be right, but as far as changing your customer's mind is concerned, you will probably be just as futile as if you were wrong.
3.Don't take it personal.
There is one thing that almost all nasty customers have in common. They try to attack you on a personal level. Name calling is not unusual. When you take it personal, you are likely to get into a yelling match with the customer which resolves nothing and only stands to make things worse. Try to diffuse the situation - kill the anger with kindness so to speak. If that doesn't work, ask them to contact you again once they have calmed down and are willing to speak reasonably. Refuse to speak with a customer in an irate state. You don't have to put up with abuse ever.
4.Don't fall for fear invoking bluffs.
In customer service some business people tend to do anything to avoid the potential harm of a threat even if it means losing money or giving in to irrational demands. When you are threatened, consider the validity of the threat. Do you really think someone is going to pay thousands of dollars in attorney fees to sue you over a low dollar transaction? Likely not. Again, do what you can to accommodate within reason but don't give in to unsubstantiated threats.
5.Don't be afraid to apologize.
Offer an apology even when the customer is at fault. An apology is not admission of fault. It can be offered to express regret. For example, "I'm so sorry for any inconvenience this misunderstanding has caused you."
P/S: Do You Know Good Customer Service is No Longer Enough?
1. Don't tell a customer they are wrong.
Telling your customer he is wrong arouses opposition and will make the customer want to battle with you. It's difficult, under even the most benign situations to change people's minds. So why make your job harder by starting out on the wrong foot.
2. Don't argue with a customer.
You can never win an argument with your customers. Certainly, you can prove your point and even have the last word, you may even be right, but as far as changing your customer's mind is concerned, you will probably be just as futile as if you were wrong.
3.Don't take it personal.
There is one thing that almost all nasty customers have in common. They try to attack you on a personal level. Name calling is not unusual. When you take it personal, you are likely to get into a yelling match with the customer which resolves nothing and only stands to make things worse. Try to diffuse the situation - kill the anger with kindness so to speak. If that doesn't work, ask them to contact you again once they have calmed down and are willing to speak reasonably. Refuse to speak with a customer in an irate state. You don't have to put up with abuse ever.
4.Don't fall for fear invoking bluffs.
In customer service some business people tend to do anything to avoid the potential harm of a threat even if it means losing money or giving in to irrational demands. When you are threatened, consider the validity of the threat. Do you really think someone is going to pay thousands of dollars in attorney fees to sue you over a low dollar transaction? Likely not. Again, do what you can to accommodate within reason but don't give in to unsubstantiated threats.
5.Don't be afraid to apologize.
Offer an apology even when the customer is at fault. An apology is not admission of fault. It can be offered to express regret. For example, "I'm so sorry for any inconvenience this misunderstanding has caused you."
P/S: Do You Know Good Customer Service is No Longer Enough?
personality disorder?
A personality disorder is basically a set of traits that combine to negatively affect your life. They have a wide range of causes and some are easier to treat than others. I already done a test to check where would be my weakness...huhuhu..Actually,this test is set up to look for the 10 recongized personality disorders which are Paranoid, Schizoid, Schizotypal, Antisocial, Borderline, Histrionic, Narcissistic, Avoidant, Dependent, and Obsessive-Compulsive.Sooooo...my results is...................
errkk...what the tuuttt???Am I paranoid???haisshh...dependant maybe la kot..wanna try???pls go to this link http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality_disorder_test.mv ,occay??? :)
| Disorder | Rating |
| Paranoid: | Very High |
| Schizoid: | Low |
| Schizotypal: | High |
| Antisocial: | High |
| Borderline: | Very High |
| Histrionic: | High |
| Narcissistic: | High |
| Avoidant: | High |
| Dependent: | Very High |
| Obsessive-Compulsive: | High |
-- Personality Disorder Test -- -- Personality Disorder Information -- | |
errkk...what the tuuttt???Am I paranoid???haisshh...dependant maybe la kot..wanna try???pls go to this link http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality_disorder_test.mv ,occay??? :)
Thursday, July 29, 2010
sedih lagi...
haissshhh...penah x korg rasa camni??tetiba jer n x memasal nak sedih!!n plg xbole blah sedih tanpa sebab...tetiba jer rasa nak nangis...shit man!!mental disorder ker??aku muda lagi kot...mintak dijauhkan... :(
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
fair lady.
sy sgt suka tgk drama2 bersiri korea...tp, yg happy2 jela..yg sedih2 or sadis2 sy xsuka layan sgt..bkn ape, ngan sy2 sekali jd emo..jd, akhir2 nih sy selalu follow this korean drama 'fair lady' yg kt tv8 tu..menarik tau!!hero2 nya pon leh tahan gak la..tp nape bape hari ni cm sedih2 jer??y la??
ok..ini dia couple itu.. i love uol la!!
dan ini juga..
like this-->
sy xsabar..sy da tau pon ending dia..hahahaha..
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ok..ini dia couple itu.. i love uol la!!
dan ini juga..
like this-->
sy xsabar..sy da tau pon ending dia..hahahaha..
NarTube - Watch Video
RED FLAG!
hmmm...patutla lately ni aku sgt2 emo n moody gile babas..rupanya...hahahaha..memang selalu mcm tuh pon tp nape la aku leh x notice,kan??bosan...bosan...aku merasa semakin bosan dgn suasana kerja di tmpt baru...huh!!!xtau la cmner nnt, kan??apepon...don't disturd me, ok??
Monday, July 26, 2010
happy.
hi!!!sy sgt happy sbb dpt beli sepasang kasut baru, sepasang baju kurung yg cantik dgn harga yg murah n sebijik handbag 'charles n keith' jer...huhuhuhu..gembiranya!!!!
Thursday, July 22, 2010
F.R.I.E.N.D.S
Hi cik kiah and pak mat sekalian... now I want to write about 7 Categories of Friends That We Should Have in Our Life..
1. The Cheerleader
The Cheerleader Friend is one that will support you and your dreams, no matter what. They are in your corner and are ready to cheer you on. Your Cheerleader is the one who is most likely to give you a pep talk when you're feeling really down and need someone to remind you what a fantastic person you really are.
2. The Hipster
The Hipster Friend is one that is younger than you and knows all the latest trends, what's in and what's out for this year. This friend doesn't make you feel old, but tells you what you need to know to keep up and be cool in today's society. This is also the type of friend that you can tell stories about the time you were fashionable and they'll get what you mean. They keep you in the know and make you feel young and hip.
3. The Mentor
The Mentor Friend is someone that you go to when you need advice. This friend always seems to know what you need to hear and when you need to hear it. They'll tell you the truth about what works in the real world. They'll guide you because they've been there and done that. They have your best interests at heart and don't want you to go through the trials and tribulations that they did. They have some things all figured out and are all too happy to share with you their wisdom.
4. The Comedian
The Comedian Friend is the friend that you go to when you need a good belly laugh. They'll brighten your day with the craziest stories that will have you hugging your sides from laughing so hard. They can make you laugh no matter what. Even if your aunt died that day. They'll find something funny about every situation. And, since laughter really is the best medicine, after being your Comedian Friend you feel a lot better just by being with them.
5. The Pusher
The Pusher Friend is there for you when you need a push. There's a little bit of tough love because The Pusher Friend knows that we will come up with all sorts of excuses, but they see right through our excuses. They make us go for things in life. Without the Pusher, maybe we wouldn't have applied for that last promotion or the new job or bought the plane ticket and had a wonderful time on our last vacation. They push you to not be satisfied with the status quo.
6. The Translator
The Translator is the friend who's of the opposite sex who only has the best platonic intentions for you. They're able to translate the words and actions of the opposite sex for you when you have no clue what it all means. Because they are of the opposite sex, they'll translate for you the men- and woman-speak for you. They help you navigate the waters with the opposite sex.
7. The Best Friend
Everyone needs a Best Friend in their life. This is the friend that sticks by you no matter what. Your Best Friend is the first person you call when you just got dumped and the only person you call to bail you out of jail because they will be there for you. Because they know that you are there for them, too. They'll help you move, pick you up at the airport, remember your birthday every year and are always there for you. Your Best Friend knows you and you know them. Your best experiences in life are with your Best Friend.
We should all remember that our friends are very important in our lives, but in order to have a friend, you have to be a friend.
p/s:i don't even have a good friend though...my only bestfriend is my bf now..haha..
1. The Cheerleader
The Cheerleader Friend is one that will support you and your dreams, no matter what. They are in your corner and are ready to cheer you on. Your Cheerleader is the one who is most likely to give you a pep talk when you're feeling really down and need someone to remind you what a fantastic person you really are.
2. The Hipster
The Hipster Friend is one that is younger than you and knows all the latest trends, what's in and what's out for this year. This friend doesn't make you feel old, but tells you what you need to know to keep up and be cool in today's society. This is also the type of friend that you can tell stories about the time you were fashionable and they'll get what you mean. They keep you in the know and make you feel young and hip.
3. The Mentor
The Mentor Friend is someone that you go to when you need advice. This friend always seems to know what you need to hear and when you need to hear it. They'll tell you the truth about what works in the real world. They'll guide you because they've been there and done that. They have your best interests at heart and don't want you to go through the trials and tribulations that they did. They have some things all figured out and are all too happy to share with you their wisdom.
4. The Comedian
The Comedian Friend is the friend that you go to when you need a good belly laugh. They'll brighten your day with the craziest stories that will have you hugging your sides from laughing so hard. They can make you laugh no matter what. Even if your aunt died that day. They'll find something funny about every situation. And, since laughter really is the best medicine, after being your Comedian Friend you feel a lot better just by being with them.
5. The Pusher
The Pusher Friend is there for you when you need a push. There's a little bit of tough love because The Pusher Friend knows that we will come up with all sorts of excuses, but they see right through our excuses. They make us go for things in life. Without the Pusher, maybe we wouldn't have applied for that last promotion or the new job or bought the plane ticket and had a wonderful time on our last vacation. They push you to not be satisfied with the status quo.
6. The Translator
The Translator is the friend who's of the opposite sex who only has the best platonic intentions for you. They're able to translate the words and actions of the opposite sex for you when you have no clue what it all means. Because they are of the opposite sex, they'll translate for you the men- and woman-speak for you. They help you navigate the waters with the opposite sex.
7. The Best Friend
Everyone needs a Best Friend in their life. This is the friend that sticks by you no matter what. Your Best Friend is the first person you call when you just got dumped and the only person you call to bail you out of jail because they will be there for you. Because they know that you are there for them, too. They'll help you move, pick you up at the airport, remember your birthday every year and are always there for you. Your Best Friend knows you and you know them. Your best experiences in life are with your Best Friend.
We should all remember that our friends are very important in our lives, but in order to have a friend, you have to be a friend.
p/s:i don't even have a good friend though...my only bestfriend is my bf now..haha..
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
bad mood is activated.pls ignore me.TQ
motip letak gmbr BABI panggang??
aku tgh bad mood skrg nih..a very2 not in a good mood..aku xtau nape..rasa bengang, marah, sedih, penat..mess up la!!stress sumer ada..feel like i'm losing something..rasa cm ape yg aku buat skrg nih cam sia2...i really don't have any idea what is happening to me now..i feel so damn down..all the time i feel like i want to curse everyone around me...kat umah nak mengamuk..kt ofis xnak berbual sgt..tanya 1, aku jwb 1...even lunch pon mkn sorg2 je..loser ker??xkot..drpd mix ngan org yg tah pape, baek aku jd lone ranger..aman sket hidup..kang silap aribln nk kena jd driver plak!!fuck them all!!!!so, to anyone that close to me, kalau agak2 nak kena maki...tlgla cr pasal ngan aku!!huh!!
GOD bless u all!
Monday, July 19, 2010
i HATE u.
i HATE....
the way u talk to me,
and the way u cut ur hair.
i HATE the way u drive my car.
i HATE it when u stare.
i HATE ur stupid jokes,
and the way u read my mind.
i HATE u so much it makes me sick!
it even makes me rhyme.
i HATE the way u make me laugh,
even worse when u make me cry.
i HATE it that u'r not around,
and the fact that u didn't call or sms me,
but mostly..
i HATE the way
I DON'T HATE U,
not even close,
not even a little bit,
not even at all.....
i love u Harris Syah..peace no war!! :P
Saturday, July 17, 2010
passion on music?
sy suka lagu ini..kepada follower sy yg bernama harris syah, boleh x tlg donlod kan lg ni ling2??muaahhh...
Friday, July 16, 2010
impossible...
I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did, I did
And you were strong and I was not
My illusion, my mistake
I was careless, I forgot
I did
And now when all is done
There is nothing to say
You have gone and so effortlessly
You have won
You can go ahead tell them
Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now
Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Falling out of love is hard
Falling for betrayal is worst
Broken trust and broken hearts
I know, I know
Thinking all you need is there
Building faith on love and words
Empty promises will wear
I know, I know
And now when all is gone
There is nothing to say
And if you're done with embarrassing me
On your own you can go ahead tell them
Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now
Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible!
Ooh impossible (yeah yeah)
I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did
Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now
Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did..
sometimes SHIT happens...
Sometimes, things won’t go your way. Yes, shit does happen….and for some unfortunate folks, shit happens pretty often too. And it’s perfectly fine for it to happen. Because sometimes, no matter how well-planned you are, things just won’t work out. Call it bad luck but that is just the way it is.
True, you can always have plan B, plan C, D, X, Y, Z. But all those backup plans are there to minimize the damages done when shit happens. For example, your boss screwed up and decided to retrench 20 people in the company and you’re 1 of them. Is it within your control? Hmm, not really. But can you have a backup plan before it happens? Definitely! One of your backup plans could be having an emergency fund to help support your expenses when you’re jobless, or you can have a backup plan to sell your car in order to raise some fund.
However, despite all the backup plans, it doesn’t remove the fact that shit has happened. What’s next then? Be honest about it. Don’t give any excuses and don’t attempt to hide it. If someone asks you what has happened, just admit that shit happened even though not everyone will buy into that “shit happens” excuse. But that’s their choice. For you, being honest is the best you could do.
Well, there’s actually 1 more thing that you should know. That is… our society does not like people who screwed up, or people who have been in a “shit happens” situation. That is why entrepreneurs who have failed in their businesses find it hard to land a job after their businesses closed down. However, our society despises cheaters even more than people who experienced “shit happens” situations. So, in the end, the decision is still yours – be honest about the entire situation, or try to cheat your way through it.
P/S :Sometimes I cannot stand people. I cannot stand the way they are, cannot stand why they go around being the way they are without knowing how annoying they are.
True, you can always have plan B, plan C, D, X, Y, Z. But all those backup plans are there to minimize the damages done when shit happens. For example, your boss screwed up and decided to retrench 20 people in the company and you’re 1 of them. Is it within your control? Hmm, not really. But can you have a backup plan before it happens? Definitely! One of your backup plans could be having an emergency fund to help support your expenses when you’re jobless, or you can have a backup plan to sell your car in order to raise some fund.
However, despite all the backup plans, it doesn’t remove the fact that shit has happened. What’s next then? Be honest about it. Don’t give any excuses and don’t attempt to hide it. If someone asks you what has happened, just admit that shit happened even though not everyone will buy into that “shit happens” excuse. But that’s their choice. For you, being honest is the best you could do.
Well, there’s actually 1 more thing that you should know. That is… our society does not like people who screwed up, or people who have been in a “shit happens” situation. That is why entrepreneurs who have failed in their businesses find it hard to land a job after their businesses closed down. However, our society despises cheaters even more than people who experienced “shit happens” situations. So, in the end, the decision is still yours – be honest about the entire situation, or try to cheat your way through it.
P/S :Sometimes I cannot stand people. I cannot stand the way they are, cannot stand why they go around being the way they are without knowing how annoying they are.
Thursday, July 15, 2010
kesedihan.
i feel so sad rite now..so DAMN sad..i dunno y..everything seems to be bad for me..nak nanges..sedihnya!!sedih sgt2 la!!selama nih aku pendam je semuanya dlm hati..pretending to be happy like nothing happen..paling kuat pon, menyumpah dgn alasan kononnya leh puaskan hati..tp, semua org xtau apa yg aku rasa..deep in my heart, aku rasa cm..ntahla..uwaaa...xsuka sgt perasaan mcm nih!!agaknya byk sgt buat dosa kot..+ all the old memories..selalu jer mengganggu aku..kt kepada manusia2 yg suka sgt buat aku sedih tu, pls la...korg smua xkan paham n rasa ape yg aku rs nih..
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
rindula kt baby ajip..
sy sgt rindu pd baby ajip..sblm ni mak sy jg dia tp pas mak ajip benti keje, sy da xdpt nk main2 ngan baby ajip n layan keletah dia yg kuat mkn tuh..huhuhu..sbnrnya, sy tau mak saya pon rindu kat baby ajip..kan mak kan??
Monday, July 12, 2010
44 Pantang Larang Bakal Pengantin
I really2 like this..huhu..
1. Jangan keluar dengan pasangan selama 40 hari sebelum diijabkabul utk mengelakkan tohmahan masyarakat. Selain itu ia bertujuan utk mengawal nafsu. Ia juga utk menimbulkan perasaan rindu dendam. Perasaan yg timbul akan membuatkan wajah pengantin lebih berseri.
2. Jgn tidur dirumah orang takut terkena ilmu. Ia juga utk menjaga nama baik keluarga.
3. Jgn bebas keluar kemana-mana kerana takut disantau oleh mereka yg mempunyai niat tidak baik.
4. Jgn makan nasi dgn gulai berkuah beberapa bulan sebelum naik pelamin bagi mengelakkan perut buncit.
5. Elakkan makan ulam yg berbau busuk seperti petaidan jering.
7. Jgn bercermin terutama selepas maghrib ke atas bagi mengelak diri dari perkara sihir.
8. Jgn membuang air kecil dan air besar serentak di dlm air contohnya dlm sungai, kolah kerana ia boleh melemahkan organ seks.
9. Elakkan minum air bergas kerana ia mempunyai gula dan gas yg tinggi dan boleh menyebabkan kencing manis.
10. Kurangkan makan makanan yg manis kerana jika terkena kencing manis, lelaki tersebut menghadapi masalah berat tika bersama.
11. Elakkan mandi malam kerana tidak elok untuk sendi-sendi.
12. Kawal makan iaitu sekali makan setiap hari (mengikut sesetengah adat)
13. Kaum lelaki elakkan memakai seluar dalam yg ketat pada waktu malam dan tidur meniarap kerana tidak bagus utk organ seks kerana darah tidak mengalir.
14. Elakkan terlalu banyak makan makanan laut kerana ia mengandungi banyak toksid.
15. Tiga bulan sebelum berkahwin, mula membuat urutan supaya pengantin mempunyai tenaga.
16. Amalkan makan telur ayam kampung seminggu 2 kali yg dicampur madu dan lada hitam yg ditumbuk utk menambah tenaga.
17. Bagi mereka yg banyak angin, minum air halia utk membuang angin.
18. Belajar ilmu rumahtangga drpd org yg berpengalaman dan sudah berkahwin tentang rahsia memikat isteri supaya rumahtangga aman dan damai.
19. Jgn memuaskan nafsu dengan cara sendiri.
20. Cukupkan waktu tidur tujuh hingga lapan sehari.
21. Elakkan minum minuman keras dan merokok.
22. Elakkan terkena cahaya matahari kerana dikhuatiri hitam dan tidak berseri pada hari perkahwinan.
23. Elakkan minum air soya kerana ia sejuk dan tidak elok utk alat kelamin.
24. Amalkan makan jamu supaya malam pengantin tidak mengecewakan.
25. Banyakkan baca surah-surah bagi mengelakkan gangguan syaitan. Sentiasa mengingati Allah.
26. Jgn makan sebebas-bebasnya kerana ketika ini sistem dalaman tidak stabil.
27. Jgn terlalu terdedah kepada keluarga lelaki (simpan diri).
28. Jgn berembun atau keluar malam bagi mengelakkan unsur jahat.
29. Jgn bercelak atau berlangir serta memotong rambut seminggu sebelum ijabkabul.
30. Jika telah nikah gantung tidak boleh bersama.
31. Selepas nikah mesti ada peneman tidur sebelum bersama. Ia bertujuan utk menghangatkan lagi kemesraan.
32. Bilik lelaki atau wanita jgn dikosongkan. Mesti ada orang atau ahli keluarga terdekat tidur di dalam bagi mengelak dr dikhianati org.
33. Jgn buat kerja yg berat. Bila pengantin membuat kerja berat, dia akan berasa penat dan mudah terjadi nya gangguan emosi.
34. Jaga pertuturan agar tidak menimbulkan rasa sakit hati.
35. Elakkan makan dan minum seperti sayur bersifat sejuk seperti kangkung, bayam, timun, jambu batu dan air kelapa agar muka nampak segar.
36. Jgn cukur kening ditakuti akan menghilangkan seri muka.
37. Sebelum menjadi pengantin, katil kelamin tidak boleh ditiduri oleh pengantin kerana tidak manis.
38. Lempar baju di atas bumbung rumah tanpa diketahui oleh org lain bagi mengelakkan hujan turun ketika majlis berlangsung.
39. Dilarang memandang cermin ketika disolek oleh juruandam kerana dikhuatiri hilang seri.
40. Kedua pengantin dilarng bercakap ketika bersanding kerana kurang manis dipandang tetamu.
41. Jgn makan kepala ayam nanti mengantuk masa bersanding.
42. Dilarang membuang alis kerana perbuatan tersebut akan menghilangkan seri wajah buat pengantin lelaki.
43. Jgn makan bersulam air kerana dikhuatiri menyebabkan perut menjadi buncit.
44. Elakkan keluar rumah tanpa tujuan kerana angan-angan yg tinggi menjelang perkahwinan dikhuatiri bakal pengantin mengalami kemalangan jika berada diluar.
Orang-orang tua Melayu dahulu selalu mengingatkan anak cucunya supaya tidak melanggar pantang larang. Melanggar pantang larang samalah dengan tidak mendengar nasihat.
Haha..bagus,kan??
1. Jangan keluar dengan pasangan selama 40 hari sebelum diijabkabul utk mengelakkan tohmahan masyarakat. Selain itu ia bertujuan utk mengawal nafsu. Ia juga utk menimbulkan perasaan rindu dendam. Perasaan yg timbul akan membuatkan wajah pengantin lebih berseri.
2. Jgn tidur dirumah orang takut terkena ilmu. Ia juga utk menjaga nama baik keluarga.
3. Jgn bebas keluar kemana-mana kerana takut disantau oleh mereka yg mempunyai niat tidak baik.
4. Jgn makan nasi dgn gulai berkuah beberapa bulan sebelum naik pelamin bagi mengelakkan perut buncit.
5. Elakkan makan ulam yg berbau busuk seperti petaidan jering.
7. Jgn bercermin terutama selepas maghrib ke atas bagi mengelak diri dari perkara sihir.
8. Jgn membuang air kecil dan air besar serentak di dlm air contohnya dlm sungai, kolah kerana ia boleh melemahkan organ seks.
9. Elakkan minum air bergas kerana ia mempunyai gula dan gas yg tinggi dan boleh menyebabkan kencing manis.
10. Kurangkan makan makanan yg manis kerana jika terkena kencing manis, lelaki tersebut menghadapi masalah berat tika bersama.
11. Elakkan mandi malam kerana tidak elok untuk sendi-sendi.
12. Kawal makan iaitu sekali makan setiap hari (mengikut sesetengah adat)
13. Kaum lelaki elakkan memakai seluar dalam yg ketat pada waktu malam dan tidur meniarap kerana tidak bagus utk organ seks kerana darah tidak mengalir.
14. Elakkan terlalu banyak makan makanan laut kerana ia mengandungi banyak toksid.
15. Tiga bulan sebelum berkahwin, mula membuat urutan supaya pengantin mempunyai tenaga.
16. Amalkan makan telur ayam kampung seminggu 2 kali yg dicampur madu dan lada hitam yg ditumbuk utk menambah tenaga.
17. Bagi mereka yg banyak angin, minum air halia utk membuang angin.
18. Belajar ilmu rumahtangga drpd org yg berpengalaman dan sudah berkahwin tentang rahsia memikat isteri supaya rumahtangga aman dan damai.
19. Jgn memuaskan nafsu dengan cara sendiri.
20. Cukupkan waktu tidur tujuh hingga lapan sehari.
21. Elakkan minum minuman keras dan merokok.
22. Elakkan terkena cahaya matahari kerana dikhuatiri hitam dan tidak berseri pada hari perkahwinan.
23. Elakkan minum air soya kerana ia sejuk dan tidak elok utk alat kelamin.
24. Amalkan makan jamu supaya malam pengantin tidak mengecewakan.
25. Banyakkan baca surah-surah bagi mengelakkan gangguan syaitan. Sentiasa mengingati Allah.
26. Jgn makan sebebas-bebasnya kerana ketika ini sistem dalaman tidak stabil.
27. Jgn terlalu terdedah kepada keluarga lelaki (simpan diri).
28. Jgn berembun atau keluar malam bagi mengelakkan unsur jahat.
29. Jgn bercelak atau berlangir serta memotong rambut seminggu sebelum ijabkabul.
30. Jika telah nikah gantung tidak boleh bersama.
31. Selepas nikah mesti ada peneman tidur sebelum bersama. Ia bertujuan utk menghangatkan lagi kemesraan.
32. Bilik lelaki atau wanita jgn dikosongkan. Mesti ada orang atau ahli keluarga terdekat tidur di dalam bagi mengelak dr dikhianati org.
33. Jgn buat kerja yg berat. Bila pengantin membuat kerja berat, dia akan berasa penat dan mudah terjadi nya gangguan emosi.
34. Jaga pertuturan agar tidak menimbulkan rasa sakit hati.
35. Elakkan makan dan minum seperti sayur bersifat sejuk seperti kangkung, bayam, timun, jambu batu dan air kelapa agar muka nampak segar.
36. Jgn cukur kening ditakuti akan menghilangkan seri muka.
37. Sebelum menjadi pengantin, katil kelamin tidak boleh ditiduri oleh pengantin kerana tidak manis.
38. Lempar baju di atas bumbung rumah tanpa diketahui oleh org lain bagi mengelakkan hujan turun ketika majlis berlangsung.
39. Dilarang memandang cermin ketika disolek oleh juruandam kerana dikhuatiri hilang seri.
40. Kedua pengantin dilarng bercakap ketika bersanding kerana kurang manis dipandang tetamu.
41. Jgn makan kepala ayam nanti mengantuk masa bersanding.
42. Dilarang membuang alis kerana perbuatan tersebut akan menghilangkan seri wajah buat pengantin lelaki.
43. Jgn makan bersulam air kerana dikhuatiri menyebabkan perut menjadi buncit.
44. Elakkan keluar rumah tanpa tujuan kerana angan-angan yg tinggi menjelang perkahwinan dikhuatiri bakal pengantin mengalami kemalangan jika berada diluar.
Orang-orang tua Melayu dahulu selalu mengingatkan anak cucunya supaya tidak melanggar pantang larang. Melanggar pantang larang samalah dengan tidak mendengar nasihat.
Haha..bagus,kan??
Saturday, July 10, 2010
my WISH LIST.
i feel so damn bored right now..tetiba je teringat menda2 yg aku nak tp xdpt2 lg..hahaha..these r my wishlist..sapela yg nak hadiahkan ekk..terpaksala beli sendiri kot..huhu..
HP yg aku pakai skrg..
HP Idaman ni..
my own DSLR camera-->NIKON..yeay!!
a pair of guess shoes.look so cantik, rite??
currently i'm wearing this watch but then i want
this watch..hmmm..
some more i want this TRD to replace my myvi yg asek meragam..
n last but not least..
(bkn gmbr sebenar)
a very happy family with some1 that i love..
aminn...
HP yg aku pakai skrg..
HP Idaman ni..
my own DSLR camera-->NIKON..yeay!!
a pair of guess shoes.look so cantik, rite??
currently i'm wearing this watch but then i want
this watch..hmmm..
some more i want this TRD to replace my myvi yg asek meragam..
n last but not least..
(bkn gmbr sebenar)
a very happy family with some1 that i love..
aminn...
BabyShambles Fuck Forever
i'm kinda like to hear this songs..this song gives me inspiration..sometimes..haha..ok, njoy this song yah!!
"Fuck Forever"
Its one and the same, one and the same oh,
So whats the use between death and glory?
How can you choose between death and glory?
Happy endings, no, they never bored me
Happy endings, they still don't bore me
But they, they have a way
They have a way to make you pay
And to make you toe the line
Sever the ties
Because I'm so clever
But clever ain't wise
Fuck forever
If you don't mind
Oh fuck forever?
If you dont mind, dont mind,i dont mind,i dont mind
Oh whats the use between death and glory?
I cant tell between death and glory?
New labour and Tory
Purgatory and no happy families
Its one and the same, one and the same
No, its not the same
Its not supposed to be the same
You know about that way
The way they make you pay
And the way they make you toe the line
I've severed my ties
Oh, you're so clever, you're so clever
But you're not very nice
So fuck forever
If you don't mind
Oh I'm stuck forever
In your mind, your mind, your mind
But have you heard about that way,
To make you feel I should soon make you pay
And to make you toe the line, line
I Sever my ties
Oh well i never
Sever the ties
And fuck forever
If you don't mind
See i'm stuck forever
Oh i'm stuck in your mind, your mind, your mind
I never played this on the radio
Oh they never played this on the radio.
nice, huh??
"Fuck Forever"
Its one and the same, one and the same oh,
So whats the use between death and glory?
How can you choose between death and glory?
Happy endings, no, they never bored me
Happy endings, they still don't bore me
But they, they have a way
They have a way to make you pay
And to make you toe the line
Sever the ties
Because I'm so clever
But clever ain't wise
Fuck forever
If you don't mind
Oh fuck forever?
If you dont mind, dont mind,i dont mind,i dont mind
Oh whats the use between death and glory?
I cant tell between death and glory?
New labour and Tory
Purgatory and no happy families
Its one and the same, one and the same
No, its not the same
Its not supposed to be the same
You know about that way
The way they make you pay
And the way they make you toe the line
I've severed my ties
Oh, you're so clever, you're so clever
But you're not very nice
So fuck forever
If you don't mind
Oh I'm stuck forever
In your mind, your mind, your mind
But have you heard about that way,
To make you feel I should soon make you pay
And to make you toe the line, line
I Sever my ties
Oh well i never
Sever the ties
And fuck forever
If you don't mind
See i'm stuck forever
Oh i'm stuck in your mind, your mind, your mind
I never played this on the radio
Oh they never played this on the radio.
nice, huh??
perhentian island.
jeles..cemburu..jelesnya bila tau ada mmbr yg berada di pulau perhentian skrg nih..aku nak g gak..tp xtau bile..haisshh..bila la dpt g perhentian nih..nak sgt g pulau tuh..a lot of reason kot.. hopefully leh g sana be4 i get married nnt...uwwaaaa....as per plan, nak wat bachelor party kt sane..huhu..insyaAllah...
perhentian island..pls wait for me k!
Thursday, July 8, 2010
no idea.
da bape hari da x update blog..aku da start keje, tuh yg bz sket nih..n xde idea lak nak update apa ekk...tp pening la kje kt tmpt br nih..br jer training kot tp cm susah lak..haiisshh..xtaula cmne nnt nih..hopefully can survive la ekk..
Monday, July 5, 2010
Sunday, July 4, 2010
double keciwa..
haiiiiiiissssssssssshhhhhhhhhh...semalam sy sgt kecewa bila Brasil kalah 2-1 dgn ayam belanda..tp at least sy rs mereka kalah bermaruah..hari ini kekecewaan sy bertambah2 bila 2nd fav team sy (Argentina) dibelasah dgn teruknya 4-0 oleh team German..wp sy admit team german agak terer la jugak tp ini bkn naseb baik..mereka (Arg) telah diayam + dimalukan dgn agak teruk skali..apapun gamaknya dorg nk bagi chance kt team2 lain utk menang kot..hahahaha..tahniah diucapkan kepada pasukan german ye...rasanya german yg pegang wc thn ni kot..hahaha..sian ex saya si Messi..dia kena flu sbb tuh xleh focus...xpe..4thn lg sy pasti sokong Argentina n brazil,occay??
Saturday, July 3, 2010
y women getting fat after married?
I'm so damn curious when thinking of my friend that getting fat and fatter after they get married lol! n the best example would be my mom..haha....dulu kurus keding jer..skrg..bkn men sihat lg ekk..(sorry mak!)..I'm wondering is it because of the marriage life itself or might be happen after they give birth..so, I google up and I found this...these are some of the reason y women gain weight after married..
Your new Celebratory State! Many women spend their single lives looking for that perfect someone. When you finally meet your mate of a lifetime, you now have a PERMANENT date, hopefully for life. You don't have to worry who you'll see the new movie with, who you'll go grocery shopping with or who you can try out every new restaurant (that you refused to go to alone) with. Let's face it going out with the girls to all these events can get old. We were created to enjoy companionship from the opposite sex and when we find it, boy are we in a celebratory state! What comes with just about all of these celebrations: EATING - good food and good drink. Believe me going out (especially much more than you did as a single person) and enjoying the world as a married couple can pack on the pounds Fast!
Added stress! Woman are natural worriers and at the very least we worry more than men. When someone new and so very special is added to your life this is someone that you will stress about daily. Good stress or bad. You'll worry and pray that they make it safely to work and back home, you'll stress on whether they are taking care of their health (so many men just don't), you'll stress over some arguments that seem to come up only after marriage and not during the courtship, you'll stress about his parents or you new in-laws who may or may not be what you expected, you'll stress over juggling your work life and new personal life, you'll stress over events and parties you will have to attend and prepare for new family, friends and co-workers in your life due to your new marriage. Believe me you will have added stress. It is proven that most of us turn to food for comfort when we're stressed. These stresses will all be new to you; no better reason to turn to something familiar for comfort: FOOD. This will pack on the pounds!
Childbirth! Many women, once married or remarried have children with their new husband, even if they already have children from previous relationships. Weight gain during child birth can be major and some of the toughest weight to lose. Don't forget that in addition to being pregnant you have the previous two factors: Celebration of a new Marriage & Stress - that can add additional pounds to your natural weight gain during pregnancy. This weight can be depressing to a woman and that too can add pounds. So when you see a newly married women who has gained weight, be kind and empathetic. If you couldn't think of why on earth this could happen to someone so previously slim, now you have something to dwell on. Help with encouragement to workout with them, babysit or suggest alternative food choices when the new wife goes out to eat. All these can help a woman to lose that weight that many of us inevitably gain after marriage.
Haha..betul ker??so, I have to start to take action from now!!xmo gemuk lepas kawen...nnt kena tggl!! :)
Your new Celebratory State! Many women spend their single lives looking for that perfect someone. When you finally meet your mate of a lifetime, you now have a PERMANENT date, hopefully for life. You don't have to worry who you'll see the new movie with, who you'll go grocery shopping with or who you can try out every new restaurant (that you refused to go to alone) with. Let's face it going out with the girls to all these events can get old. We were created to enjoy companionship from the opposite sex and when we find it, boy are we in a celebratory state! What comes with just about all of these celebrations: EATING - good food and good drink. Believe me going out (especially much more than you did as a single person) and enjoying the world as a married couple can pack on the pounds Fast!
Added stress! Woman are natural worriers and at the very least we worry more than men. When someone new and so very special is added to your life this is someone that you will stress about daily. Good stress or bad. You'll worry and pray that they make it safely to work and back home, you'll stress on whether they are taking care of their health (so many men just don't), you'll stress over some arguments that seem to come up only after marriage and not during the courtship, you'll stress about his parents or you new in-laws who may or may not be what you expected, you'll stress over juggling your work life and new personal life, you'll stress over events and parties you will have to attend and prepare for new family, friends and co-workers in your life due to your new marriage. Believe me you will have added stress. It is proven that most of us turn to food for comfort when we're stressed. These stresses will all be new to you; no better reason to turn to something familiar for comfort: FOOD. This will pack on the pounds!
Childbirth! Many women, once married or remarried have children with their new husband, even if they already have children from previous relationships. Weight gain during child birth can be major and some of the toughest weight to lose. Don't forget that in addition to being pregnant you have the previous two factors: Celebration of a new Marriage & Stress - that can add additional pounds to your natural weight gain during pregnancy. This weight can be depressing to a woman and that too can add pounds. So when you see a newly married women who has gained weight, be kind and empathetic. If you couldn't think of why on earth this could happen to someone so previously slim, now you have something to dwell on. Help with encouragement to workout with them, babysit or suggest alternative food choices when the new wife goes out to eat. All these can help a woman to lose that weight that many of us inevitably gain after marriage.
Haha..betul ker??so, I have to start to take action from now!!xmo gemuk lepas kawen...nnt kena tggl!! :)
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